"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Went to break up w/ GF.....WTF?

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49au said:
That reminds me of another ex that I mentioned in the BPD thread. I dumped her. She called/texted incessantly. She drove by my house all the time. She even barged in one night while I had another girl over, yelled at the girl then smacked the hell out of me. Even after I defriended her, she stalked by Facebook and examined my friends list for new additions and would email me when she saw one.

Then she blocks MY number, blocks ME on Facebook, and starts talking sh1t about me.

And now after a year of NC she's emailing me, and her FB is suddenly completely public, showing off pictures of her and some ugly guy that she's apparently dumped.

And my dumb ass is actually thinking about banging her again next time I'm in Orlando.

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:rolleyes: is right mate, is the puzzy that good?

Hot damn

Epic fail

I had an ex who did the same thing, she was hot and all but it wasn't worth it no matter how hot she is
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Solomon said:
:rolleyes: is right mate, is the puzzy that good?

Hot damn

Epic fail

I had an ex who did the same thing, she was hot and all but it wasn't worth it no matter how hot she is
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Situation is a bit different now...

She lives 3 hours away.

She has never been to my new place (and never will). She doesn't even know where I live other than the general area.

She has never met any of my new friends (and never will).

If I'm in town and if it works out, I may fvck her for old time's sake. Sex with her was never boring and she has great tits. My weakness.



btw, she never exhibited ANY crazy behavior during the relationship. This one was a sleeper psycho.
 
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^^49 I respect ya mate, but its not worth it, these women are like heroin man, their great in bed, usually hot (like my ex) and batshyt crazy

Trust me if you let her in even a tiny bit, she will find a way to make your life miserable again they always do.

It took me 2 years to shake my ex, she literally ruined me in every way, mentally, financially etc
 
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