Went out with an older woman.. Got rejected!

[Korrupt]

I'm 21, she was about 40. She was attractive and the date went well. Conversation was good, teased her, had some good laughs, but was rejected in the end.

"I had a good time, but you might be too young."
"Did you feel an outstanding connection?"

She then actually asked me to kiss her. We made out and her response was "meh, what did you feel?"

I told her that if she's not interested I rather her be honest and straight up and tell me, but I didn't get a straight answer. Probably the only date I've ever been on where I made out with the chick but felt completely rejected afterwards lmao. BUT, I got my wish..

"It was nice meeting you yesterday. You're very attractive and charming, but unfortunately not my type, and chemistry's very important to me. Good luck, I'm sure there will be plenty of demand for someone like you. Have fun in South America, they'll love you being a tall handsome American. "

Bring on the next one!

 

[Strelok]

An ego boost showing herself she can still have a young guy after her 40something boyfriend got a 25yrs old girl instead of establish a family with her old ass?

If a girl reject you it's not always your fault as you failed anything, if you cant recall any major mistake what I said could be accurate.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I think that you, as the man, should have discerned that there was a chemistry issue and that she was qualifying you.

As it was, you kind of put yourself in a very passive position.

 

[nismo-4]

Older women can diktease you like a woman in their 20's. Older women are tougher to get now thanks to this cougar craze and the growing number of young guys who go for them, mainly because they can't get a young woman.

OP, she just wasn't that into you. She probably went out with you to be nice and to get an ego boost.

 

[PapiChulo]

Where I live there two types of cougars - the classy upper-middle class ones, and the trashy ones hanging out in the country bars.

The classy ones:
-They are out there to attention wh*re for the most part or have a quick insta-date or what not.

-They arent completely into ONS unless you are hot hot hot.

-They actually prefer men in their 30s for a prolonged fun.

The trashy ones are up for anything.

And on the teasing part, I had that one cougar telling that she lives 5 minutes away from the bar and asking what I would do to her if she gets drunk in that case. I thought it was on. And it never happened and I ended up with blue balls! I treated it as a sh!t test, but I guess I should have told her that I would f*ck her brains out. (Anyway, I was only starting out with the game and everything).



P.S. You should have tried to lay her anyway.

 

[Jeffst1980]

No reason to feel bad...she didn't waste your time, and obviously found you physically attractive.

Older women value different things than younger women. For now, you should stick with the younger ones.

 

[Korrupt]

P.S. You should have tried to lay her anyway.

Should I have used a brick or chloroform + rag?