"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Went out friday night - lots of lonely girls

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It was a pubcrawl, so my main intention was to get drunk and have fun with my friends. Approached one girl early on that I had met a couple weeks ago, opened, chatted a bit, then after a little kino I told her I was going back to my friends. I didn't even really need to do anything, just enjoy myself and be confident, and whenever I was talking to her after a couple minutes excuse myself to go back to my friends. She kept chasing me down and trying to flirt with me and talk to me.

Anyway, thats not the point. In one of the bars we went to, around the edge of the dance area there was this big line of couches. You know what it was full of? Hot girls looking incredibly bored! What the hell, hot girls in a club looking bored? There must have been at least a dozen of them just waiting for someone to approach and hit on them, but it basically never happened the entire night. I was amazed. I didn't get a chance to because I was having fun with my friends and already had the other girl annoyingly latched onto me at every opportunity she could. It probably would have been as simple as 'hey you look bored, come dance with me!'

Anyone else noticed this kind of thing before?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In one of the bars we went to, around the edge of the dance area there was this big line of couches. You know what it was full of? Hot girls looking incredibly bored!
I do think it's unusual to find a large group of hot girls unattended, especially in a bar. Maybe it depends on your definition of hot.

I think most girls of a certain age are attractive, as long as they're in some sort of reasonable shape. But there are those that really stand out for whatever reason, and those are the ones I would really consider hot. I guess there are hot girls and then there are HOT girls.
 

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Things may be different in Australia. As far as being in a club in the US and seeing hot girls by themselves...thats a big no. I met one fitness model on Friday night, just for fun I decided to sit back and watch what happened. Every 10 seconds, groups of guys would approach her and try their hand at getting her to do anything. Then another group, then another one, and on and on until the bar closed. But, there were always a ton of normal girls sitting on the couches with nobody even glancing their way.
 

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Well... I thought they were hot. Good bodies, skimpy clothes, lots of makeup, I didn't really notice if there were much hotter out on the dance floor since it was pretty busy and I was pretty drunk. Actually, there was a group or two where there were 2 girls (obviously friends) next to each other, one guy sitting on the outside animatedly chatting to one of the girls and completely ignoring the other. The other was, of course, looking completely bored. I didn't think girls did that to their friends. Wingmen apparently don't exist in this hole.

Well, I'm fine with hitting on normal chicks that aren't used to it. Good practice until I reach the point of being skilled enough to go for the 10s, since they don't get any attention they are more receptive to it right?
 

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It's an Aussie thing. Aussie guys typically don't approach women until they're really really drunk, and by that stage, most hot girls have already gone home.

On the other hand, most Aussie girls aren't that approachable and tend to bunch up in groups, not talking to strangers.

And around around it goes in circles.

Pretty much all attractive Aussie girls who've been to America say that they get hit on all the time, way more than back home.

It's only at certain top establishments in Sydney or Melbourne that you'd see hot girls getting hit on all night, wing men and the likes that you often hear from American sites like SS.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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arutha said:
Well, I'm fine with hitting on normal chicks that aren't used to it. Good practice until I reach the point of being skilled enough to go for the 10s, since they don't get any attention they are more receptive to it right?
I'm sure some will disagree with me, but you're probably better off with the normal chicks anyway. Here in the US at least, if a woman is a 10 she is pretty much guaranteed to have personality issues. They become far too spoiled from getting way too much male attention for their entire lives, and start to think they're entitiled to it. I'll pass, thanks.

Unless you're just using them for sex, I'd say the 10s aren't worth the trouble, and even then the 7s probably try harder. Personally, I don't believe in 10s. I use the scale where the highest is a 9 because there's no such thing as 10s, but I'm using your scale here.
 
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