Went out *briefly* tonight FR: married woman

[Poonani Maker]

I went out tonight half-heartedly. I'm too busy trying to buy a house, and until I move, I don't feel like bringing a woman home, BUT I go out anyway tonight, and lo and behold, what do I see, a chick I know of, who is married, but is out, without her husband, wine glass in hand, and eying me from afar, and getting closer to me, at the bar. So I move away. I'm kinda disgusted. She's Hot no doubt, because she's disciplined (works out) and she's got money (clothes jewelry, adornment). She's intelligent too, but Greeedy, VERY materialistic, and can snap on you (throw you away). I don't know her, I just know *of* her. She knows *of* me as well, but we had Never crossed paths in person until tonight. She can't have children.

How does a woman overtly, not only go out, leaving her husband at home (I don't know, maybe he's away on a trip or something), but aggressively, flirt, drink and socialize in a bar, with guys. When she saw me, she kept looking at me, then tried to get closer. I gave her space when she came near, then I just walked out of the bar. I was only there 15 minutes at most.

I got A LOT of looks from hotly dressed, and just plain hot girls, but I just wasn't up to it. I'm getting older (farting more), but my looks still attract, and I've got to get this housing situation under wraps before I consider ONSs again. It'll take about 90 days to close on the house. I know this is just an excuse, but I just don't feel proud of where I live, though I've saved a lot of money living like a slumdog millionaire in India.

Anyway, I had a good time in my 15 minutes of fame tonight. Better to be scarce than to hang around with no plan of action to take a woman home eventually. Exit stage left.

So I go to another bar that's changed dramatically since I last went to it. It used to be rock or 80s type music. Now, it's cover (I had no cash so didn't go in), and the parking lot is packed now, and the music is Dance hip hop booming bass, and different clientele. I will be visiting this bar in the future maybe, went I get my sh!t together. I can blend in with any crowd, and almost all people like me, except for those who are cliquish (no matter What I DO or SAY, I can not gain entrance into their social circle, maybe if I paid a fee I could).

Why do obviously married chicks, go out, and lure guys (she had 6 or 7 orbits)? Maybe her husband permits her (32 yrs old) to do these things??

 

[Veridin]

That is creepy; some here would no doubt say "do her anyway man!", but they miss the part about greedy and dump-you-in-a-second. I know the type, I wouldn't touch them with a ten-foot pole. It's like a sleezy guy in a woman's body.

Why she does it - yes, good question, especially if it is a bar where people are likely to recognize her. These things never stay quiet, they come back to haunt you.

This is a lesson for all, to make sure when you marry that you really marry the right one, so you never have to be tempted to stray: it always leads to trouble.

 

[speakeasy]

There is a married woman in my social circle who hits on me when her husband isn't around. I think women do this for pretty simple reasons. They are simply bored to some degree with their husband. They may be with that husband because they enjoy the stability of being in a marriage, yet don't want to give up the fun aspect of being single. They are having their cake and eating it too.