"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Went on Date, Girl talking too much
- Thread starter noneother
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Master Don Juan
agreed.rather her talk too much then not enough
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This. How else do you get to know a woman besides listening? Lead her in the conversation...tell her what to talk about, her childhood, her family, the way she was raised, her first love, get all of that information so you can judge what kind of woman she is and treat her accordingly. If she throws out a lot of ho like tendencies...treat her like a ho...you dig? She's giving you the keys to her mind through her words and your mad about that? Pimp hard baby, pimp harder!Allurre said:Keep them gunning with their mouths.
Learn all you can about them.
However, if this habit persists after several dates, clearly, she has no genuine interest in discovering who you are.