"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I haven't jerked off or looked at porn in over a week,so I am going to see what the affects of that are. Still playing phone tag with a therapist,but,I wonder how long it will take me to get over these issues. One of them being having gone for a long time without sex,and actually getting out there and trying to get some. I mean, I wonder how much of it is just lifestyle,or this lack of a social network/contacts,due to not having been in school and building all that up. How do you drill all this stuff into your head,the body language,eye contact,kino,igonoring,etc?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CapedCrusader08 said:
I haven't jerked off or looked at porn in over a week,so I am going to see what the affects of that are. Still playing phone tag with a therapist,but,I wonder how long it will take me to get over these issues. One of them being having gone for a long time without sex,and actually getting out there and trying to get some. I mean, I wonder how much of it is just lifestyle,or this lack of a social network/contacts,due to not having been in school and building all that up. How do you drill all this stuff into your head,the body language,eye contact,kino,igonoring,etc?

It's not lifestyle, lack of social network/contacts, or due to you not having been in school and building all that up, its about your parents paying for your computer, phone, rent and clothes.

Send some resumes out and get a job. Make your own money and stop living off your rich parents.
 
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I have a job,I had work tonight actually.

It's been now 3 years for me since I last did the deed,which leaves me to ask,wtf happened? Where did I go wrong? etc,etc. I suppose some of this is caused by anxiety/isolation.
 

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You have a job but it doesn't maen anything since your parents are paying for everything.
 
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