"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I haven't jerked off or looked at porn in over a week,so I am going to see what the affects of that are. Still playing phone tag with a therapist,but,I wonder how long it will take me to get over these issues. One of them being having gone for a long time without sex,and actually getting out there and trying to get some. I mean, I wonder how much of it is just lifestyle,or this lack of a social network/contacts,due to not having been in school and building all that up. How do you drill all this stuff into your head,the body language,eye contact,kino,igonoring,etc?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CapedCrusader08 said:
I haven't jerked off or looked at porn in over a week,so I am going to see what the affects of that are. Still playing phone tag with a therapist,but,I wonder how long it will take me to get over these issues. One of them being having gone for a long time without sex,and actually getting out there and trying to get some. I mean, I wonder how much of it is just lifestyle,or this lack of a social network/contacts,due to not having been in school and building all that up. How do you drill all this stuff into your head,the body language,eye contact,kino,igonoring,etc?

It's not lifestyle, lack of social network/contacts, or due to you not having been in school and building all that up, its about your parents paying for your computer, phone, rent and clothes.

Send some resumes out and get a job. Make your own money and stop living off your rich parents.
 
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I have a job,I had work tonight actually.

It's been now 3 years for me since I last did the deed,which leaves me to ask,wtf happened? Where did I go wrong? etc,etc. I suppose some of this is caused by anxiety/isolation.
 

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You have a job but it doesn't maen anything since your parents are paying for everything.
 
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