Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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Who's name is the lease in?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
well they finally told me the truth
- Thread starter Jaun_Don
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
If you want them out, change the lock while they are away. No squatting. No bull****.
Thanks for all of your advice on this...I'm over it all now and I couldn't care less about her, she just doesn't worry or concern me anymore, i sent an e-mail to my friend telling him that really man Life is too short for all of this bull****, no one likes to feel this way,no one wants bitterness or grudges between friends we are Adults and we just need to move on.
He said he agreed and that this can be worked out, of course it can she wasn't mine to begin with he is welcome to her, she maybe all sweetness and light now but you know what i'm saying...
Still, yeah I don't even know why I cared so much, there are HUNDREDS OF FINE FEMALES OUT THERE.
I have learnt a lot from all of this and ultimately I have a lot of confidence back and know how to watch out for Attention *****s.
I still have a feeling that she did this out of jealousy but that's her thing not mine.
peace
He said he agreed and that this can be worked out, of course it can she wasn't mine to begin with he is welcome to her, she maybe all sweetness and light now but you know what i'm saying...
Still, yeah I don't even know why I cared so much, there are HUNDREDS OF FINE FEMALES OUT THERE.
I have learnt a lot from all of this and ultimately I have a lot of confidence back and know how to watch out for Attention *****s.
I still have a feeling that she did this out of jealousy but that's her thing not mine.
peace