"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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well they finally told me the truth

Giovanni Casanova

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Who's name is the lease in?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you want them out, change the lock while they are away. No squatting. No bull****.
 

Jaun_Don

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Thanks for all of your advice on this...I'm over it all now and I couldn't care less about her, she just doesn't worry or concern me anymore, i sent an e-mail to my friend telling him that really man Life is too short for all of this bull****, no one likes to feel this way,no one wants bitterness or grudges between friends we are Adults and we just need to move on.

He said he agreed and that this can be worked out, of course it can she wasn't mine to begin with he is welcome to her, she maybe all sweetness and light now but you know what i'm saying...;)

Still, yeah I don't even know why I cared so much, there are HUNDREDS OF FINE FEMALES OUT THERE.

I have learnt a lot from all of this and ultimately I have a lot of confidence back and know how to watch out for Attention *****s.

I still have a feeling that she did this out of jealousy but that's her thing not mine.

peace
 
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