"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Earlier,I was responding to add's on craigslist,got one response. She says she is not from the area,and is looking to meet someone sexy and fun. She placed her page in the response, http://annmartinez.com/. Does it look real,or a scam? She mentioned the area she lives in,I know the area very well. Do you think I gotta chance?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GuanYu

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Ask her to fvck and see what she says.

Women looking for cack on craigslist are slvts anyways.

Also she's in college and claims to just moved into her own crib so ask to get together.
 

GuanYu

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Well don't bother then. She says she wants confident men and to think any woman is out of your league is displaying a complete lack of confidence.

She has a nice azz and is in college. It's not hard to sex those types man. Just ask to hook up, what do you have to lose? Rejection? Who cares
 

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Caped.... i hate to let you know this, but that girl isn't real. What i mean is i saw the same add before and they tried to get me to buy some **** when i actually was talking to her. A couple more emails and they will tell you to get on to a website to talk to her. Its all a hornymatches.com scam
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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damn. well, then obviously, I need to learn better confidence. Yeah. Rejection is what I have to lose. Something I need to get through. Damn,and I thought I was close to some success. I figured something was up when they mentioned the horny matches.com thing. But the area she says she lives,this cafe that I know of and been too,makes me think this is for real.

Well,saying she is outta my leauge wasn't what I meant. I guess I was excited I gotta response. And when I saw her page,idk,a little intimidated perhaps? See,all this comes from not getting out enough. As for trying to sex those types or any types,well,idk, maybe I see things differently. Yeah.
 

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was it a cafe near san francisco? cause yeah they pulled that on me too. Funny thing is this is one of the only internet ads i have ever replied too, but it was the most convincing until the girl kept insisting i register on this site.
 
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no,boston. I mean the responses seemed real,or am I just chasing something... She said what if we meet up and see if we click.
 

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by all means go to the end of the responses and see how far it goes. im just letting you know i saw the same pictures and she was advertising for san francisco.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You can tell she's fake by the fact that she has her own .com website. That shyt costs money. A real person would just do this on myspace, or FB.

just make a free account at HornyMatches and contact me through my profile
Anything where they try to get you to register, or 'chat' is a scam. I can spot that shyt in a half a second.
 

Mr_rogers

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Yeah, it's so obviously bull**** it's painful.

"I'm scared to post my phone number up here..." and right afterward says that her profile has her phone number on it, and that to talk to her one need only make a free account.

>_> If the account's free, what's stopping one of those scary people she's talking about from just making a free account and getting her phone number?

It's kinda sad that spam has gotten this creative.
 

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most of CL in the CE section are either women/men trying to make money by making u click their ads/join their site or gay men trying to steal your pictures. sometimes its just women collecting pictures. i found one real woman, that found me very attractive but i thought she had a hideous face. decent body and skin though.
 

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738! Yep thats the Google results when you select "thanks for visiting my website. i know its nothing special but I made it myself. it took me all day to make and yes ". A quick way to "double check fakeness" is to google a part of a web page like the one this " gal" supposedly had
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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