"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, paper beats rock, I guess...

VoiceofReason

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...godd@mn!t.

Okay, here's the backstory before you guys go any further http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=91143

Okay, so there's that. This is the problem .

She apparently hangs out with him tonight at another friends girlfriend's birthday party. He's good friends with the two throwing the party... She calls me from there when this guy and other people go outside for a cig... She talks trying to get me to say something about her and this guy, but, holding my balls firmly in place, I joke around the issue...

She abruptly hangs up telling me she'll call me later...this is at about midnight...

She just called me (it is now 5:30am) and told me that her and this guy f*ck*d in the parking lot where ALL 3 OF US work. Without a condom, she says... She apparently knows that I like her (not my fault, I promise...), so why the hell is she telling me this stuff?!?

And to explain my title, she told me that they played paper, rocks, scissor before they boned...and that was the only thing I could say...she laughed, though...

Honestly, everyone who reads this, help...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Centaurion

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So you are pissed because she f*cked her bf?

She is using you for attention, maybe she gets off making you jealous.

She is a f*cking *****. Do not waste another second on her.

I personally would have gone 'uhuh good for ya', and then f*cked one of her girl friends up the ass. But hey, that's just me.
 

amethyst

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Bro send her packin' she is ****ing with you big style... Yea so she might be cute and you like her but I bet there are hotter girls at your work/social gatherings that you could have more fun with. Tell ya the truth the same **** happened to me with a girl not long ago, she went as far as kissing a guy right in front of me and then having the nerve to tell me she loved me as I was leaving the joint.

**** em bro she will just crush your ego, go out and **** some girls then call her up that night and tell her how your ****ed em like she did. If you wanna **** this girl being a nice guy is gonna get you no where, show the least possible denominator of attraction screw around with other girls and before you know it she will probably be at your doorstop crying and wanting you to **** her, weather you do or don't it becomes solely your choice.

One thing ill never understand about people is how they will be able to put up with so much **** from girls just to get *****… Basic my advice is, go out enjoy your life and forget about her cause if you do hook up with her;

A) She cheated on her BF with the guy at work and who says he won't do it with you

B) She sounds like a classic attention *****

C) Her BF is a ****ing marine

Soo stop thinking about her get a hobby (maybe self defense classes ^^) and go have some fun cause life is way too ****ing shot to be wastein' with an Attention *****

Love

Amethyst
 
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