"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, paper beats rock, I guess...

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VoiceofReason

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...godd@mn!t.

Okay, here's the backstory before you guys go any further http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=91143

Okay, so there's that. This is the problem .

She apparently hangs out with him tonight at another friends girlfriend's birthday party. He's good friends with the two throwing the party... She calls me from there when this guy and other people go outside for a cig... She talks trying to get me to say something about her and this guy, but, holding my balls firmly in place, I joke around the issue...

She abruptly hangs up telling me she'll call me later...this is at about midnight...

She just called me (it is now 5:30am) and told me that her and this guy f*ck*d in the parking lot where ALL 3 OF US work. Without a condom, she says... She apparently knows that I like her (not my fault, I promise...), so why the hell is she telling me this stuff?!?

And to explain my title, she told me that they played paper, rocks, scissor before they boned...and that was the only thing I could say...she laughed, though...

Honestly, everyone who reads this, help...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So you are pissed because she f*cked her bf?

She is using you for attention, maybe she gets off making you jealous.

She is a f*cking *****. Do not waste another second on her.

I personally would have gone 'uhuh good for ya', and then f*cked one of her girl friends up the ass. But hey, that's just me.
 
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Bro send her packin' she is ****ing with you big style... Yea so she might be cute and you like her but I bet there are hotter girls at your work/social gatherings that you could have more fun with. Tell ya the truth the same **** happened to me with a girl not long ago, she went as far as kissing a guy right in front of me and then having the nerve to tell me she loved me as I was leaving the joint.

**** em bro she will just crush your ego, go out and **** some girls then call her up that night and tell her how your ****ed em like she did. If you wanna **** this girl being a nice guy is gonna get you no where, show the least possible denominator of attraction screw around with other girls and before you know it she will probably be at your doorstop crying and wanting you to **** her, weather you do or don't it becomes solely your choice.

One thing ill never understand about people is how they will be able to put up with so much **** from girls just to get *****… Basic my advice is, go out enjoy your life and forget about her cause if you do hook up with her;

A) She cheated on her BF with the guy at work and who says he won't do it with you

B) She sounds like a classic attention *****

C) Her BF is a ****ing marine

Soo stop thinking about her get a hobby (maybe self defense classes ^^) and go have some fun cause life is way too ****ing shot to be wastein' with an Attention *****

Love

Amethyst
 
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