"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well look who finally got laid

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Well well, after abot 8 weeks, five number closes and three first dates i finally had a nekkid woman between my sheets.

And she's actuallay a person I've known for three years now. 33 year old, met her at a photograpy class and we've maintained casual contact since then, but there was absolutely no sexual vibes between us. Of course, I eas in an LTR all those years.

She asked herself over for dinner at my place and when she stepped through the door I instantly sensed that something was different. She was dressed very differently up in a gorgeous outfit and had lots of makeup. I decided right there to go for it!

Now, my question to you:

She's a bit of an emotional person. You know, the creative artsy type.

How do I keep her around as a fvck buddy and dodge the "are we a couple" discussions as much as possible? I mean, if she tries to get emtionally closer to me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jophil28

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K-man said:
. She was dressed very differently up in a gorgeous outfit and had lots of makeup. I decided right there to go for it!
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Oh, believe me, she had already decided that for both of you.
As long as you had a pulse that night you were gonna get some.

Now to your question about how to keep her emotions in check. You can't - all you can do is keep your own under conscious control.
 
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How do you keep her emotions in check?

You don't!!!!

You want her emotions to run wild when you are around. You want her to go crazy trying to lock you down. This is when you will see just how far a woman will go in the bedroom to impress the man she wants.

Meanwhile you keep things super fun and casual never suggesting anything serious. If she starts getting too clingy then you have to stay busy with your own life. She should have the impression that you have so many important things going on you barely have enough time to squeeze her in. Tell her you simply can't get into anything too serious right now. If she presses you tell her you aren't interested in a relationship but you love spending time with her and want to see where things go. Be vague, talk in circles.

Now is the time to date multiple women and have them all going nuts over you!

It's called being a Don Juan. Congrats my friend!
 
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