"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well, its been though..

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Trapper

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i slept with one girl who has been my close friend..she also wanted at that time.. since than i saw her couple of times but she did not wanna talk to me..i mean she seems like we did wrong thing...it feels bad..well, this is the first time i feel really bad after S..X.. for the first time DJ IS GONE...

how can i get her back? how to make her feel comfortable? what do you suggest guys? thanks for any advice
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blinkwatt

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I have had a girl or two I went out with go cold on me. Don't bother with it. Just move on,DON'T BURN BRIDGES. They stop talking to you for a reason.
 
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ask her calmly, "wtf is up with your behavior lately?"

if her answer is not satisfactory, respect yourself and walk away
 
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