Well it finally happened

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I have been on this site for 5 years. I found it in high school when I was a complete nobody. I remained that way until I want to say my Junior year of college. Then I finally learned to talk to people and had some fun at parties.

I spent this past summer working at one of the hottest bars at the beach and learned a lot! I also hung out with my 17 year old brother who is a natural ladies man and he helped me shed a lot more of my pud wacker ness.

I made the goal to lose my virginity summer 2006. Yes, I am now a senior in college. Yes, I am 21 fricking years old and had my first kiss at 18. Yes, it has been very slow. However, this summer I started kissing more and more girls but not much more.

Well, the last day before classes started, it happened. I banged a girl! Actually, I really didn't bang her that well at all but I still put the soldier in before he fell back out and the condom made me go limp.

Anyways I went from just kissing to feeling and licking nippes, having a girl go down on me, and finally getting my johnson wet. And I did it with a one night stand. Yes, that's correct, it was a one night stand for my first time. I don't even know her last name. And she doesn't go to my school. And she has a boyfriend. Yes, I probably won't ever see her again. Even though she said she comes to my school all the time to hang out. I think the fact that I couldn't get in her after that first time was the reason. I attribute that because it was dark, damn it was dark, and the condom was too tight. So I couldn't see a damn thing, and that bush down there didnt help. Ew!

So I called her the next day to see how she was and such and we talked for 2 minutes then she said she was moving stuff and had to go. She said she would call me back in 5 minutes; I was like sure sounds good.

Needless to say, the call never returned. THat was monday afternoon, and as you are all aware, this is wednesday night.

I know for a fact she is coming to town this weekend, and want to get my winky wet again; and do it right this time.

Do I have a chance? Also, how can i make it happen if yes?

Also, THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR NUTTY POSTS OVER THE YEARS, the tactics I have read so many times naturally occured and helped make it happen

 

[Desdinova]

First of all, congrats on your progress! Sometimes baby steps are the best steps to take.

I know for a fact she is coming to town this weekend, and want to get my winky wet again; and do it right this time.

Do I have a chance? Also, how can i make it happen if yes?

Of course you have a chance. However, I wouldn't put too much emphasis on banging this girl "right" this time for a couple of reasons. First of all, she sounds like a flake. It's very possible that nothing will happen with her. Second, the first *few* times having sex are never fantastic. Just like approaching, number closing, and kissing, it takes quite a bit of experience to get it right.

Don't worry too much about your performance on your first time. Just focus on how fvcking awesome you're doing with your progress! Keep up the good work

 

[JezDuffield]

I have never been able to understand how or why two brothers that have the same parents and upbringings can be so different when it comes to alluring hot babes as I always thought that being a true ladies man was due to how the boys Dad interacted amongst the ladies, but there must be more to it than that.

It is great though that you are becomming more successful with girls, if you keep learning and practicing these things, you will allure many more hot babes in the future.

I don't have any brothers, only sisters, so I just thought if the eldest brother was successful with girls then his Dad would have been, his Mom would be hot, and the brothers that followed would be the same, but I have obviously got it wrong, All the best anyway. :yes: