"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well I officially lost my V-card

BannedGod

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That is all. Not as exciting as I thought. Yes it felt ****ing good, but I had glorified way too much for what it is.

Oh and no I wasn't awful, she actually had to stop before me, over stimulation can be a ***** I guess. She was a pansy (ok I'm exaggerating a bit)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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amoka

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Congrats. And it only took you 3 plus years of being on SS to get it done. Who could have thought of that?
 

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BannedGod said:
That is all. Not as exciting as I thought. Yes it felt ****ing good, but I had glorified way too much for what it is.

Oh and no I wasn't awful, she actually had to stop before me, over stimulation can be a ***** I guess. She was a pansy (ok I'm exaggerating a bit)
You officially lost it? As opposed to the time you unofficially lost it? Anyway, I hope you put on a jimmy...
 

sodbuster

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well, now you know why us old farts don't get all worked up about it. After a couple thousand times, I still like it,but It isn't a major goal[more of a minor one]. BUT you young kids willing to die for it makes it harder for the rest of us who won't put up with that much sh!t
 
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