"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well I officially know the worst feeling (emotionally) in the world...

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stop having one committed girlfriend at a time, and this kind of feeling will never EVER find you again!


considering how fast she moved on, it shows she doesnt care about you at all....so why should you care about her? why should you care about any random chick that you are hanging out with and hooking up with? You need to learn the playa game and go far far away from the square symp game of having ONE gf at a time, because the end result is exactly what you are experiencing (either that, or marriage, but how likely are you to marry some random chick that you are banging in the first place?)

use your head, and use logic, and you will never go wrong
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mothballs

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****... you really think that hasn't happened to any of us? Practically every guy has had this happen to them. It will get better, and a future woman will erase practically every memory of her. It may take a while to really get over it and it's gonna hurt like hell til you do, but you will get over it. Just as other people have said... get a hobby or go out drinking with your friends... just whatever you do don't close in like you suggested. It's not the end of the world.
 
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