"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well i lost control for to long

VikingKing

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a 7 month obsession. Probably due to my drinking for the entire time. I was doing benzos and drinking the last 6 months of the relationship. I was a real *******. I dont know. All I know it took me a long time to **** my life up. I have so much work ahead of me to fix it. Im 24, im good looking. I just neglected my life for so long. Its easy to **** up, harder to do well. I just ended up hurting myself. ****s weakness.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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twentee

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yep, you're nothing but a big pvssy. better end it all now and save yourself the agony.
 

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twentee said:
yep, you're nothing but a big pvssy. better end it all now and save yourself the agony.
This man is a broken record dont listen to him. Hes recited the end it all line at least 400 something times now. Dont know why hes here. The fact that hes accumulated 400 some-odd posts in a matter of months on a board that allows a limit per day should tell you where his social life stands.

Anywho, we all have moments in our life where we hit the bottom. As long as you realize that its a problem you can fix it. My sister was a massive junkie since the age of 14 all the way up until 23. We found her in a car passed out on the side of the road with a bullet hole in the wind shield so that should give you an idea of how wild her life was. Guess what? Shes clean now, has her own house in an upscale neighborhood and a family. She did a complete 180, and Im sure you can do the same.
 

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Dude, man, that's why we preach the whole 'let her go' ideology around here. To prevent obsession, because it gets you nowhere. Too much of anything will cause damage. But now you realized. Log your progress and build on yourself one day at a time. When you have a bad day, read the good from previous days. You'll make it.
 

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lol goundra/ twentee = same person, thats 20 posts a day.


Ignore button.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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