"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well i lost control for to long

VikingKing

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a 7 month obsession. Probably due to my drinking for the entire time. I was doing benzos and drinking the last 6 months of the relationship. I was a real *******. I dont know. All I know it took me a long time to **** my life up. I have so much work ahead of me to fix it. Im 24, im good looking. I just neglected my life for so long. Its easy to **** up, harder to do well. I just ended up hurting myself. ****s weakness.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yep, you're nothing but a big pvssy. better end it all now and save yourself the agony.
 

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twentee said:
yep, you're nothing but a big pvssy. better end it all now and save yourself the agony.
This man is a broken record dont listen to him. Hes recited the end it all line at least 400 something times now. Dont know why hes here. The fact that hes accumulated 400 some-odd posts in a matter of months on a board that allows a limit per day should tell you where his social life stands.

Anywho, we all have moments in our life where we hit the bottom. As long as you realize that its a problem you can fix it. My sister was a massive junkie since the age of 14 all the way up until 23. We found her in a car passed out on the side of the road with a bullet hole in the wind shield so that should give you an idea of how wild her life was. Guess what? Shes clean now, has her own house in an upscale neighborhood and a family. She did a complete 180, and Im sure you can do the same.
 

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Dude, man, that's why we preach the whole 'let her go' ideology around here. To prevent obsession, because it gets you nowhere. Too much of anything will cause damage. But now you realized. Log your progress and build on yourself one day at a time. When you have a bad day, read the good from previous days. You'll make it.
 

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lol goundra/ twentee = same person, thats 20 posts a day.


Ignore button.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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