So, Im one of those guys who is still a virgin at 25 turning 26 soon.
To make long short, me and this guy at work were gaming her... I won. I got the number and she was interested. She would call me back etc etc.
But whenever I asked her out, she could never say yes.
I gave it 3 weeks to let things cool off. Between those 3 weeks, she would call me on saturday nights but I wouldn't pick up to sound busy. The only time we went out was during lunch breaks from work and we went out twice out of the 3 weeks. She told me on our 2nd and last lunch break together that she liked me as a friend but continues to flirt (which drove me nuts cause im still AFC deep inside)
So, yesterday, i figured it was time to ask her out again after 4 weeks. She said she wasn't going to do anything on wednesday 4-11-07(and that yes we should hang out. So, I called her today and talked a little bit. Finally, I asked her about tomorrow
she went like
HB: well, um i got to get my hair done tomorrow at 11am. Hmm
me: yeah, how long is that gona take you? 10 hours?
me: so what.. yes or no?
hb: no, sorry. Maybe some other time. So waht are you going to do now?
me: just take care of business as usual. Make other plans.
me: ok well, I need to get going. BYE
then later on I texted her
me: By the way, I don't need your friendship. I have plenty of friends.
then I deleted her number of my cell. And thats that.
I felt like i grew balls even if a little for doing this.
Also, this chick at work who would flirt with me by poking me in the rib. I finally asked her before I left work, "Hey, do you have a boyfriend"
HB: "yeah I do, he's home right now sleeping"
me: "aright" then I left
Felt kind of weird asking and doing the things above but, the numbness and emptiness I felt, felt kinda good.
To make long short, me and this guy at work were gaming her... I won. I got the number and she was interested. She would call me back etc etc.
But whenever I asked her out, she could never say yes.
I gave it 3 weeks to let things cool off. Between those 3 weeks, she would call me on saturday nights but I wouldn't pick up to sound busy. The only time we went out was during lunch breaks from work and we went out twice out of the 3 weeks. She told me on our 2nd and last lunch break together that she liked me as a friend but continues to flirt (which drove me nuts cause im still AFC deep inside)
So, yesterday, i figured it was time to ask her out again after 4 weeks. She said she wasn't going to do anything on wednesday 4-11-07(and that yes we should hang out. So, I called her today and talked a little bit. Finally, I asked her about tomorrow
she went like
HB: well, um i got to get my hair done tomorrow at 11am. Hmm
me: yeah, how long is that gona take you? 10 hours?
me: so what.. yes or no?
hb: no, sorry. Maybe some other time. So waht are you going to do now?
me: just take care of business as usual. Make other plans.
me: ok well, I need to get going. BYE
then later on I texted her
me: By the way, I don't need your friendship. I have plenty of friends.
then I deleted her number of my cell. And thats that.
I felt like i grew balls even if a little for doing this.
Also, this chick at work who would flirt with me by poking me in the rib. I finally asked her before I left work, "Hey, do you have a boyfriend"
HB: "yeah I do, he's home right now sleeping"
me: "aright" then I left
Felt kind of weird asking and doing the things above but, the numbness and emptiness I felt, felt kinda good.