"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well i blew it

cablecow15

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the girl i liked said im more of a friend than a boyfriend. the games up right i should just next her and move on . but im curious is there a way to be more like a bf to a girl and not a friend like be less frendly or something .i mean im about through but i dont wanna throw in the towel yet idk why ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Muphaser

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NEXT Her Ass


Then come back a few months down the line if you need to
 

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Work on your rep dude.
By working on your image and your rep you wont need to go to her,
She will go to you.
But by that time you willl forget her cause you will be popular.
Good luck
 

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I don't know I mean there's a time when a guy has to just give up, and only a fool will go on fighting - personally I'm a bit fool. And you know who taught me that? A little ten year old kid, who was in love with his best friend and wanted to date her. - A TEN year old kid saying "Even if she says we're just friend I'm not gonna give up, I'm not going to tell my heart no, when I know this is right!" and I was like 'Damn o.o' - So it's up to you. I'd say wait for things to cool down, and just... ask her out. Don't work the whole "Are we b/f & g/f thing, just go out more. Don't say as friends or whatnot, just go out. Go for a movie, walking, lunch, club. Whatever the hell comes through your mind. And the second you get that first kiss, you beat it!

You've won right there and then, because she'll KNOW you're boyfriend material. After all, who's she to judge whether or not you'd make a good boyfriend? What does she know about your love life? What does she know about what you have deep inside you. She doesn't know jack, and you my friend, must not give up~
 

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yea but the weird thing is we kissed already i mean wtf and she dont wanna go out fine fu@$ her im gonna do what muphaser said next and come back later i think i can work on a better rep by then too
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cablecow15

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im really confused
 

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cablecow15 said:
im really confused
Dude... She's a woman. Women don't make sense. When they try their pixie trick bull**** in an attempt to confuse you, just NEXT their asses, and see them come crawling back.
 

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Only a man who knows what it is like to be defeated can reach down to the bottom of his soul and come up with the extra ounce of power it takes to win when the match is even.

Life is a gamble. You can get hurt, but people die in plane crashes, lose their arms and legs in car accidents; people die every day.

In other words, it's good and don't care in the long run.
 

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cablecow15 said:
yea but the weird thing is we kissed already i mean wtf and she dont wanna go out fine fu@$ her im gonna do what muphaser said next and come back later i think i can work on a better rep by then too


Yo bro,,, you can always comeback to her
Nothing wrong with that
 
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