"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well, did i F*ck up again?

kevin1198

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After a failure with a HB in second block. (all i did was smile and give her a whats up nod, to which i received a nasty look that i tried to play off)
I talked to a girl in 3rd whom expressed interest in me. we made some conversation and convinced her to try out a new hairstyle for me. she did, but i wasnt around to see it. skip to the next day.

I decided to make a move. me being me i waited till the end of class hoping i wouldnt have to hit on her in front of her friends (and EX) and hesitation grew within me. I decided to go balls out and as i tried to contain my nervousness, went up and put my arm around her and negged her for not having the hairstyle for me that day. I dont think it went well with her but she said she would date me.

next day, being the last day of spring break, i said F*ck it and asked what she was doing over spring break. I then invited her to go to the shooting range. I gave her my number and she texted me. This is how it went.

HB: Kevin?
Me: Good guess. whose this?
HB: It's HB
Me:haha, did you think i gave you the wrong number?
(No response) and hour later after my workout i texted
Me:If i dont have work sunday we can make some noise on the range.
HB:i thought you did.
HB: sorrii i didnt text back sooner. i misplaced my phone.

where did i screw up and how can i fix this if i did? i dont know why but i feel like im slowly digging myself into a hole here.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Amo

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Brotip: Calm the **** down.

To me it seems you did perfectly fine. Don't let your anxiety about ****ing up, well, **** you up.
 

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DJ_Hero said:
The one thing that sticks out for me is that face that you're taking a girl to a shooting range. It's not necessarily bad, just a pretty "unique" place to bring a date. :p
haha. well theres not much to do where i live. and i remember reading a post about how action dates are the best. So naturally my first option is the gun cabinet. i thought it was pretty creative haha
 

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Lol, that actually is a pretty creative date. Completely out of the ordinary as well. Tell us how it goes.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mr_guido

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Good luck, sounds better than some instances I've heard bro! She's just playing coy. :D
 
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