"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well cant meet women at work and dont go school. where?

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How do u join social circles if im only in 1 and theres no girls of interest to me and besides online? And in no clubs
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Are you physically active? I would start running, start small and do a 5k in your area. Lots of good looking girls run. Running and races have a good atmosphere around them, everyone is supportive of each other because "we're all in this together" and such.

I've recently gotten into this for the health aspect of it, but I know if I keep at it the chances of possibly meeting someone are pretty high, and a bonus that we already have something in common.
 

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Tinder. Hate it or love it, most of the girls on there are sexually available and seeking someone.
 

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Building_and_Loan said:
Are you physically active? I would start running, start small and do a 5k in your area. Lots of good looking girls run. Running and races have a good atmosphere around them, everyone is supportive of each other because "we're all in this together" and such.

I've recently gotten into this for the health aspect of it, but I know if I keep at it the chances of possibly meeting someone are pretty high, and a bonus that we already have something in common.
Lots.

Not only are you improving yourself but you're going to meet women who share a similar hobby...

I consider running a "booty territory" because every girl has the most bubbly butt you'll ever see but hampered by a small to medium boob size...
 

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Last of the Alphas said:
Hey buddy, didn't know you were a mod now. Congrats on the promotion.
Thanks man!

It's honestly not that big of a deal to be honest. But I have noticed that I gravitate towards authority on some level, hence my career choice...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I cant get no girls on tinder to meet i ask to hangout they ifnore me i have foot drop i cant run right now
 

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join a MeetUp group, preferably the networking groups. Plenty of chicks who are new in town attend network meetups to make new friends. They won't have their guard up
 

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Take dancing lessons, take a language course, go to church (if you're into that), take a cooking course, join a club, play a sport make some friends get them to introduce you to women, get a job working somewhere that women work. At the end of the day a lot of people meet when they are drinking and partying; once you get a few friends that are girls then use them for networking, keep it platonic and get them to party with you and bring their friends.
 
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How and where can i do this stuff how do i make ladyfriends and them introdude? Thr one i have wont introduce nlme to anyone she told me she kept eyes open but i know she bsin
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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http://www.gatewaypets.com/get-involved/become-a-volunteer/

I keep telling you, animal charities are chick city. Notice how you have no interest in this idea? Yeah, every other guy feels the same way, which is why it's like 90% women at anything to do with something about saving animals. Do what other guys won't do, and you will have opportunities they don't have.
 
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