"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well, another one bites the dust... (vent)

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Hung out Wednesday with a girl I met on OkCupid. She invited me to come over for wine at 11pm, so I knew it was a booty call. I get there, we talk and drink wine for about 30 minutes, and we fvck. The bad? She bled. A lot. This has happened to me several times in the past so I wasn't grossed out. Anyways, I ended up spending the night and leaving the next afternoon.

She hits me up yesterday and we decide to hang out today. The drive was HORRENDOUS this time due to my GPS losing it's signal multiple times, but I finally get there around 7:15pm (9pm as I write this) and we go up to her apartment. I was actually planning on going out (because that's what we had planned), but it was obvious she wanted to fvck first. We start, I pull out after about 2 minutes, look at the condom, and there's blood on it and her. Apparently she didn't believe she was on her period because she hadn't bled at all before seeing me.

Don't know what happened, but right then my mood completely changed. I wasn't grossed out, but I really, REALLY didn't want to be there. I wanted to leave immediately.

We shower off and she's still all over me kissing me and giving me compliments. "Do you want me to suck your d!ck?" I told her "not now." She asks if I want to go see a movie. "Do you want to go see a movie? I'll take you." I paused and just said "...I don't know" - obviously unenthusiastic.

Her next question: "Has your mind changed about being here?"

My response: "Actually it has... I'll be honest with you. I'm sorry."

Her: "Wow..."

Me: "I'm sorry. I don't know what to say."

Her: "Then you should probably leave."

I walked right out and left. Felt like an a$$h0le. Texted her on the way home: "You're a great girl, *name*. I'm sure you'll find someone. It's just not me." She responded: "Obviously it's not you... I deserve better." Lol actually she's right. I honestly believe I'm pretty fvcked up and may need psychological help.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you're a faggot

have a nice day
 

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Sonny Knight said:
you're a faggot

have a nice day
I hope your entire family dies a horrible, painful death and you're forced to watch.

Have a nice day.
 

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i'm not the one fu ckin bloody pu ssy

i bet you ate that b!Tch pu ssy too
 

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Korrupt, don't know why it grossed you out so much that she was on her period, haven't you had sex with girls who are on their period before? But if you're not in the mood you're not in the mood. And I don't know how she couldn't know she was on her period, she should count the days.

But the text message was unnecessary, there is no need to say something to the effect of "I won't go out with you anymore." Just leave it, that allows both of you to save face.


And wow, Sonny Knight. You don't get any sex, I can tell. Just here to troll.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wolfgang D said:
Korrupt, don't know why it grossed you out so much that she was on her period, haven't you had sex with girls who are on their period before? But if you're not in the mood you're not in the mood. And I don't know how she couldn't know she was on her period, she should count the days.

But the text message was unnecessary, there is no need to say something to the effect of "I won't go out with you anymore." Just leave it, that allows both of you to save face.


And wow, Sonny Knight. You don't get any sex, I can tell. Just here to troll.

:moon: troll my ass who the fu ck was talking to you

i'm just not soft on these b!tch as$ niggaz like your sister titties

when you act like a (man aka dj) i'll treat you with respect

on'til then fu ck off co ck chocker

Wolfgang D said:
You don't get any sex
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stop clocking my co ck mileage

Wolfgang you have no self respect for you're self or females but i dont blame you or that faggot i blame you're parents they didn't raise all right
 

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Sonny Knight said:
:moon: troll my ass who the fu ck was talking to you

i'm just not soft on these b!tch as$ niggaz like your sister titties

when you act like a (man aka dj) i'll treat you with respect

on'til then fu ck off co ck chocker

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stop clocking my co ck mileage

Wolfgang you have no self respect for you're self or females but i dont blame you or that faggot i blame you're parents they didn't raise all right
Furthest thing from a man is what you are. Sounds like you grew up without a father and you're one of those "gangsta" pvssy's who thinks acting "hard" and throwing insults around makes you a man. LOL. You're laughable.

Can someone ban this obvious troll?
 

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Furthest thing from a man is what you are. Sounds like you grew up without a father and you're one of those "gangsta" pvssy's who thinks acting "hard" and throwing insults around makes you a man. LOL. You're laughable.

Can someone ban this obvious troll?
let me get this sh!t straight just because i don't approve of you disrespecting a female i'm a gangsta and a troll

you need some self discipline most nigga would give you a pass! not me a$s hole grow the **** up

you did something wrong now accept responsibility now be a man and apologize to that young girl (I didn't say young lady) fuc king on her period is just **** nasty but still


nigga you're dead wrong on this one:nono:
 

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i think the texting her and telling her that was a low blow...i don't blame her for being pissed...i would be pissed if a chick did that to me...talk about a good way to ruin a person's day...

and periods are periods...every girl has them...there must have been another reason...
 

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zinc4 said:
i think the texting her and telling her that was a low blow...i don't blame her for being pissed...i would be pissed if a chick did that to me...talk about a good way to ruin a person's day...

and periods are periods...every girl has them...there must have been another reason...

He came here looking for sympathy I will not validate his bullsh!T he just don't understand that having character and respect is part of being a dj

you might be justified but you still have to act dignified
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sonny Knight said:
let me get this sh!t straight just because i don't approve of you disrespecting a female i'm a gangsta and a troll

you need some self discipline most nigga would give you a pass! not me a$s hole grow the **** up

you did something wrong now accept responsibility now be a man and apologize to that young girl (I didn't say young lady) fuc king on her period is just **** nasty but still


nigga you're dead wrong on this one:nono:
I'm not a "nigga." You might be, but I'm not. African American usage of the word "nigga" is one of the reasons why the race is so fvcked up today. They show no respect for themselves or other African Americans. You don't see any other races using a derogatory word to describe themselves, do you? Especially not one that was used as an insult 200 years ago...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3PJF0YE-x4

1.) How old are you?
2.) Do you support Obama?
3.) Do you think saying "nigga" and using terrible grammar makes you look more credible?
4.) Did you, or did you not, grow up without a father?
5.) Do you live in the ghetto?
6.) Do you have aids?
7.) Who repped you? (So I can neg them too)
8.) If you're so hard and are such a man, why did you sign up here 6-7 months ago?
9.) Why is your name "Sonny Knight" and not "White Knight?"
10.) Have you ever been in a fight? (In real life - online doesn't count)

Sonny Knight said:
He came here looking for sympathy I will not validate his bullsh!T he just don't understand that having character and respect is part of being a dj

you might be justified but you still have to act dignified
LOL do you even know the definition of "validate?"
 

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Don't even waste your time on that sonny knight faggot. I've seen his other posts and he's just a troll and a dumb n!gger. Whenever I see him post I think of a chimpanzee screaming and slapping a keyboard. N!ggers like him give us black people a bad rep.
 

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OP you are not in control of your emotions and libido and no one can blame you for being turned off from what happened, however the girl not only didnt piss you off (rare thing these days), not only didnt sh1t tested or played tricks (rare as well) but after what happened she also tried to make you happy offering a bl0w job (which I would have gladly accepted if I were you), anyway you decided to leave fine.

But what was the point of that message? what where you trying to get out of it?

It seems like you felt dirty and through that aggressive message you were trying to throw the dirt at her.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
OP you are not in control of your emotions and libido and no one can blame you for being turned off from what happened, however the girl not only didnt piss you off (rare thing these days), not only didnt sh1t tested or played tricks (rare as well) but after what happened she also tried to make you happy offering a bl0w job (which I would have gladly accepted if I were you), anyway you decided to leave fine.

But what was the point of that message? what where you trying to get out of it?

It seems like you felt dirty and through that aggressive message you were trying to throw the dirt at her.
I wasn't grossed out. She bled the first time and it didn't bother me. I was disappointed. Extremely disappointed and "fed up" so to speak. I drove all this way just for her to bleed on me again and I felt let down. Ehh it doesn't make sense, but something turned me off completely. It was like a light switch.

The message was meant to say that she's a good catch, but that we're not compatible/meant for each other. It wasn't meant to be insulting.
 

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Guys, letting you know that we've addressed the inappropriately aggressive poster in this thread and will have zero tolerance moving forward.

I personally want to tell you guys that we're taking personal attacks very seriously and are actively engaged in dealing with them decisively.

I just thought it was appropriate to let you all know that this hasn't escaped our awareness and that we've got your back.

Atom
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you got turned off and lost interest in sex, that's fine. It happens.

But I would have relaxed and watched some TV with her if she had a decent personality (ie she was decent company) and/or got a HJ lol.

No need to make her feel bad or burn bridges unnecessarily.
 
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