flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
There are so many of you
With the new coming of Sosuave, I believe a welcome is in order to all of our esteemed guests.
As you progress through this site, you will be greeted warmly by some, and insulted heavily by others.
Know who to trust. With so much knowledge at our fingertips, anybody can create a whirlwind theory that can be very inticing. Don't always believe the first poster, you don't have to believe any of them at all. Some people on this site enjoy making a mockery out of others, it is a way to make themselves avoid the negativity in their own lives. So don't worry, they are harmless, nothing they say has any real mirth, but what feelings they do inspire in you, use them to your advantage.
Learn how to write. Basic skills will get you far enough, but to truly get an answer to your question, you must exercise the power of the pen. Write meaningful posts, and give praise to your thinking. Always make sure you ask a good question, don't cry about things that you KNOW the answer to. Always remember that it is the title of the thread that people read first, so make it count.
Be positive. Negativity robs the cradle, make sure that everything you speak of and think about have a positive purpose. If you are going to tease a person on this site, know that they might not like the way you said it. You will have people ignoring you if you complain too much. If your posts are negative your thoughts are as well, so always put cheer into your posts, out of respect for us.
Don't complain. You are the only person that can change yourself. If you ask others about a problem that is bothering you is one thing, but accusing somebody else of being a problem is another.
Be true to your personality. Be true to yourself. Be true to your responsibilities in life. Hiding behind a computer screen in anonymity it is easy to be somebody who you are not. C&F(c0cky and funny) may have brought you to this site, it is good to have the mental habit to not be too c0cky as you will come off as arrogant and ignorant to change. Coming off as too funny will label you as a clown.
Welcome criticism. Everything you say says who you are in life. If somebody notices something about your personality, and others echo the cry, your best to know that they are correct. Don't deny anything, listen and accept the implications of your writing. Criticism is always directed at you, so don't be afraid, you must be strong, don't let it hurt you. Change is slow, but you must realize what must change to become better.
Read the DJ Bible. This is going to ring through your head a million times if you are on this site long enough. It is very true
Face your fears. Nobody on this site can force you to do anything, they can make you see if you put your problems on the table. As you come across things that pique your interest, know that the reason for wanting to know about the topic may be due to a deep rooted fear. Face all of your fears, as that is what makes you human. Change your mindstate, change your life, face your fears, and never stop moving forward.
Push yourself harder. In life, fitness, and your thoughts. Mind, body, and spirit. Every chance you have doing nothing, can be spent doing something. The only time you can be bored, is when you are forced to do something you cannot change. Boredom comes from the lack of interest. You can have hours of fun counting how many hairs are on your hand, so discount nothing in your life. You can always do better than what you are doing now. Helping out others is a good way to know what is important in life, an excellent place to start would be with your own family.
And above all, don't lie about anything!!!:trouble:
With the new coming of Sosuave, I believe a welcome is in order to all of our esteemed guests.
As you progress through this site, you will be greeted warmly by some, and insulted heavily by others.
Know who to trust. With so much knowledge at our fingertips, anybody can create a whirlwind theory that can be very inticing. Don't always believe the first poster, you don't have to believe any of them at all. Some people on this site enjoy making a mockery out of others, it is a way to make themselves avoid the negativity in their own lives. So don't worry, they are harmless, nothing they say has any real mirth, but what feelings they do inspire in you, use them to your advantage.
Learn how to write. Basic skills will get you far enough, but to truly get an answer to your question, you must exercise the power of the pen. Write meaningful posts, and give praise to your thinking. Always make sure you ask a good question, don't cry about things that you KNOW the answer to. Always remember that it is the title of the thread that people read first, so make it count.
Be positive. Negativity robs the cradle, make sure that everything you speak of and think about have a positive purpose. If you are going to tease a person on this site, know that they might not like the way you said it. You will have people ignoring you if you complain too much. If your posts are negative your thoughts are as well, so always put cheer into your posts, out of respect for us.
Don't complain. You are the only person that can change yourself. If you ask others about a problem that is bothering you is one thing, but accusing somebody else of being a problem is another.
Be true to your personality. Be true to yourself. Be true to your responsibilities in life. Hiding behind a computer screen in anonymity it is easy to be somebody who you are not. C&F(c0cky and funny) may have brought you to this site, it is good to have the mental habit to not be too c0cky as you will come off as arrogant and ignorant to change. Coming off as too funny will label you as a clown.
Welcome criticism. Everything you say says who you are in life. If somebody notices something about your personality, and others echo the cry, your best to know that they are correct. Don't deny anything, listen and accept the implications of your writing. Criticism is always directed at you, so don't be afraid, you must be strong, don't let it hurt you. Change is slow, but you must realize what must change to become better.
Read the DJ Bible. This is going to ring through your head a million times if you are on this site long enough. It is very true
Face your fears. Nobody on this site can force you to do anything, they can make you see if you put your problems on the table. As you come across things that pique your interest, know that the reason for wanting to know about the topic may be due to a deep rooted fear. Face all of your fears, as that is what makes you human. Change your mindstate, change your life, face your fears, and never stop moving forward.
Push yourself harder. In life, fitness, and your thoughts. Mind, body, and spirit. Every chance you have doing nothing, can be spent doing something. The only time you can be bored, is when you are forced to do something you cannot change. Boredom comes from the lack of interest. You can have hours of fun counting how many hairs are on your hand, so discount nothing in your life. You can always do better than what you are doing now. Helping out others is a good way to know what is important in life, an excellent place to start would be with your own family.
And above all, don't lie about anything!!!:trouble:
