"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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White Boy

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Actually I had another account on here for a while but I lost my password, lol

But I never posted much anyway. So here's the new me WHITE BOY and the reason I am starting this thread is because I hope to be pretty active in the forums.

So if you see me around the boards then hey whatsup!!!

Only thing I want to say is I don't see myself as someone who struggles with dating, but I can always improve, and this site has a history of great advice. Even though some people unfortunately continue to ask the same questions, from what I can tell.

All in all I hope to be one of the guys here who doesn't put anyone down, and tries to teach myself by helping others.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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