Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Damn the board was down for a long time. I'm glad to see it back up.
Did it get new servers, change ISP's or something like that?
Did it get new servers, change ISP's or something like that?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Welcome back DJ board!
- Thread starter Maxtro
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
skaterguy97
Don Juan
im noticing the search function not turning up results for anything for me
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What sort of upgrades? It would be nice if you could post pictures and youtube video's on this forum rather then just links.mpimpin said:Working on new server and other upgrades, expect some more dt soon as we wrap things up. Hopefully won't be down as long anymore.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I had a feeling.mpimpin said:Working on new server and other upgrades, expect some more dt soon as we wrap things up. Hopefully won't be down as long anymore.
Any chance we can get avatars implemented? Or at least only master members and mods can use them.