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Last night I met the pook of women, the master don juana. the professional flirt.

So I met this girl at the movie theatre. Shes chinese with probably C sized cups. VERY curvy, beautiful swaggering hips. The most crazy lips, a cute button nose and GREEN EYES. she was wearing contacts or something. I began with fluff talk, pushed some c+f, she initiated kino with a slap to the leg, i furthered it by throwing popcorn down her shirt.

Once during the previews shes like "I think shes pretty hot" I turned towards her and waited for eye contact and said "I think shes pretty hot" while stairing at her. Clearly showing that i thought she was hot. Was this a good move or not?

When we got out of the movie theatres I was sitting at a table with my friends, she spotted me from accross the giant lobby. I looked at her in the eyes then moved on to my friends and started to do alpha male things like crack a joke, I then hit my friend in the shoulder really hard, he like got up and he started to like get in a submissive mood. Im pretty sure she spotted me doing this and acknowledged my alpha-male status. She came over to the table and shes like "whats up" all flirty and smiley - She appeared 100% confident approaching ME in a group with my friends who she knew nothing about - This impressed me. I said to my self this girl knows how to flirt. I froze because i didnt know what to do, but i froze in the James Bond style "im too good to reply, so ill keep you waiting for another 2 seconds before i reply." She seemed to be really amazing but by seeing how she is experienced I saw this as a fun and interesting challenge. I then said "whats up?" She stepped on my toes and stood there, she leaned in towards me, as if she were going to kiss me, she was totally showing her boobs off, wanting me to look down her shirt. I took the bait and looked, then looked back up. then she smiled and said "had fun tonight?" I seriously was arroused beyond belief. I instantly popped a boner. I froze AGAIN but after 2 seconds I lifted my feet up as if to get her off my feet and said "back off deez nuts" she said "okay, ill see you later then, have a good night" and rubbed my hair and walked away swaggering her butt like no other. I then threw a piece of my friends popcorn at her and i said "whatre you doing tonight?" she said "looking for a harder challenge" I said "same here, you met me 2 hours ago and youre already showing your boobs to me." she came over and sat on the table next to my friend and started fluff talk with him but my friend is totally AFC.

later on that night we played the game a bit more, she ended up coming over to my house, i gave her plenty of orgasms from the tips section. I ended up playing with her privates for 15 minutes, but... She never gave up the sex or gave me pleasure, she even made me wear a condom the whole time... weird. She never took off her shirt or her short shorts fully... She didnt even kiss me. She left, rubbed my hair and said "good night!" and walked out the door, then started walking down the street in short shorts and a pretty revealing shirt at 1am as if she was totally comfertable with doing that.

I was amazed... I seriously was amazed beyond any belief. I remained speachless after she rubbed my hair, i froze for like a minute when she started walking down the hall and shut the door. I then followed her outside and she just kept walking, i froze again for another 2 minutes.

what should have I done different? have any of you met women like this?
 

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She cares more about the chase than getting laid, I'd say let her go. She's more into the power of not letting you get laid.
 

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later on that night we played the game a bit more, she ended up coming over to my house, i gave her plenty of orgasms from the tips section. I ended up playing with her privates for 15 minutes, but... She never gave up the sex or gave me pleasure, she even made me wear a condom the whole time... weird. She never took off her shirt or her short shorts fully... She didnt even kiss me. She left, rubbed my hair and said "good night!" and walked out the door, then started walking down the street in short shorts and a pretty revealing shirt at 1am as if she was totally comfertable with doing that.
BAAAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!

You just got played.... I know girls like that, they get soo much pleasure from getting guys to think that their going to give it up, but they rarely do (unless you got good game).

My ex-gf was like this, but I played it out well enough that she couldn't resist.
 

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i think if you were in my position at the table you would have gotten seduced and played as i did.

normally i see these women as lots of fun! i see them like a project rather than a game... an equal challenge... but i dont know... she turned me on to such an extreme extent....

i learned a lot and i have to give her my reguards for how seductive she was... ive never been so turned on

what about my question, above if that was a good move when i turned to her and said "i think that girl is pretty hot"
 

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Originally posted by xomel

what about my question, above if that was a good move when i turned to her and said "i think that girl is pretty hot"
That's a ******** expression and yes she did understand that as you saying that "she was hot."

But from the outcome it seems more that this caused her to pick on to the fact that you found her attractive and she decided to **** tease you to the point of nothingness.

You acted far TO EASY and NOT ENOUGH CHALLENGE.

So in that aspect I don't think it was a good move.... You should have given her more doubt as to whether you found her attractive or not and gotten her into a reactive position to where she would start to wonder about you and her.

My advice is that the next time you find a girl like this make her wonder if you find her attractive..
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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i kind of didnt know she was that flirty until after... she was there with her friends. wasnt talking to them, wasnt talking to me, she seemed quiet. she really opened up in the lobby though
 

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Originally posted by xomel
She never gave up the sex or gave me pleasure, she even made me wear a condom the whole time... She never took off her shirt or her short shorts... She didnt even kiss me...
Just so I've got an accurate mental picture of what went on here...

You're with a girl who still has on all of her clothes - as do you, although for some reason you're wearing a condom - a girl who you haven't kissed, and who isn't doing a thing to you, and you're fingering her? Buddy, get a different girl. I'm still wondering wtf is up with wearing a condom though - last I checked STD's can't fly through the air, down into her pants, through her panties, and into her coochie... then again, I might be wrong.


By the way... where are you from??
 

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damn that cracks me up, XOMEL it really looks like to me that you got OWNED!
 

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Hi im from pasadina california and yes, i did get owned, i do not deny that. this post was mainly to share a story and compliment her on her abilities. She was really weird, she pulled down my pants then the first thing she did was put a condom on my member. and i have no idea why she wanted me to wear a condom.

She also is not my girl and thus i have no reason to get a different girl.
 

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Originally posted by xomel
Hi im from pasadina california and yes, i did get owned, i do not deny that. this post was mainly to share a story and compliment her on her abilities. She was really weird, she pulled down my pants then the first thing she did was put a condom on my member. and i have no idea why she wanted me to wear a condom.

She also is not my girl and thus i have no reason to get a different girl.
She wanted to lead you into thinking you were going to lay her. What I personally would have done is rolled on top of her into a dominating position and started to make out with her. A couple minutes later, then you start to remove her clothes. With girls like this you always have to be in a dominating role or it's just that easy to get played.
 

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Congratulations! You have just met the female master don juan . You just happen to be couple notches under her level ;) and she found that out in bed. You gotta be a challenge even in bed. She made you wore a condom and didn't kiss to make sure there was absolutely no exchanging of body fluids whatsoever. She used you as her sex toy for the moment, saw what you got and walked. You should have stopped right before her first orgasm and let your dragon do his work :D. If she refuses, try again, do whatever you do but stop right before her orgasm. If she refuses again then give her a smile and put on your clothes. At this point, most girls would rather be "stabbed" than stopped. You gave her orgasms several times, she already satisfied so there was no need for your dragon :p.
 

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Originally posted by xomel
...i furthered it by throwing popcorn down her shirt...
Haha a classic move. Don't forget to retrieve it once you throw it down there though!
 

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Originally posted by xomel
I froze because i didnt know what to do, but i froze in the James Bond style "im too good to reply, so ill keep you waiting for another 2 seconds before i reply."

what should have I done different? have any of you met women like this?
...Can someone explain to me how you " freeze in the James Bond style "? And how do you end up getting her off for 15 minutes without getting any pleasure on your end? You d!ck was out and you just sat there and got her off? I don't see how this story makes her a master, she just sounds like a c0ck tease. Why waste time with a girl like that when there are plenty of other girls that are more than willing to make sure you both are happy in the end.
 

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Re: Re: weirdest thing, a don juana!

Originally posted by Seraph
...Can someone explain to me how you " freeze in the James Bond style "? And how do you end up getting her off for 15 minutes without getting any pleasure on your end? You d!ck was out and you just sat there and got her off? I don't see how this story makes her a master, she just sounds like a c0ck tease. Why waste time with a girl like that when there are plenty of other girls that are more than willing to make sure you both are happy in the end.
I freeze in the james bond style because I made it the face in my most rehearsed tendency. http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip329.htm
my most rehearsed tendencies:
1. "Oh really? [pause] that's cool!"
2. "why?"
3. James bond style face
4. the dull repetitive nod, makes me look unimpressed.

But usually I just think of something I could talk about at later point, like if i notice or think of something but dont say it I just keep it in my mind to say it later on when I dont have something to say.

the many things she said:
"wait more!"
"one more time!"
"wait, im not ready yet"
"seriously, i will just go in to the bathroom and do it my self"

thats not what makes her a master though. What makes her a master is just how seductive she was. Ive seriously never met a more seductive person. Ive never been turned on so quickly. Her stepping on my feet, then leaning down MAKING me look down her shirt. She had such a smile too, it was like a flirty, teethy smile but not even cute.

Also, Its not like I wasted my time with her. Im not bothered by that night or her, too look on the bright side I gained experience knowledge and looked cool in front of my friends. I just hope they dont find this site :D Im usually not bothered by girls. I had no idea she was a ****tease til the end of the night. Im not obsessed with her anything, I dont need your pity. Also there are so many more girls that are out there. I wouldnt mind being her LJBF because I think girls like that are fun. She seemed pretty amazing, part of the reason why I froze when she walked away.
 
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