"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yesterday i was looking good, gelled hair nice shirt to the gym..and the girl of my dreams was giving me ios, even waited until i finished my workout to see if i'd talk to her..

i chickened out yesterday, but today i see her in the gym but i m not looking my best...so I approach w/o IO and get a short convo..i dont feel alot of interest on her part,

but she rejects me after 1-2 min convo and i ask for email. 'tells me i have a bf' when yesterday she was giving me mad IOIs..

i still am going to try to talk to her more next time and ask again bc i frankly really like her looks. I think that was too soon to ask her but it confuses me when 1 day shes totally in to you and the next day..shes wasn't 'not totally against me' its just that

she was looking at me again when i walked away like ...she was attracted to me.. i dont know
guys i probably screwed up the approach i should have talke d more

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think a lot of this has to do with the way you went about picking her up. She may have given you IOIs, but that just means she found you attractive or interesting. That doesn't mean that she doesn't think her boyfriend is MORE attractive or interesting.

It sounds like you may have raised her defenses with your approach. You might want to use a little more active disinterest next time so as not to scare her off. The "I have a boyfriend" defense is a hard one to get past once it's been dropped. Next time you see her at the gym, maybe you should try asking her to join you for a smoothie or something if your gym has a bar there. Something you can do together, in the gym, which is actually like a date, just so you can establish some rapport with her. After that, she may open up and give you her email or number.

I just posted a thread on my blog about tactics to pick up women at the gym you should definitely check out:

How To Pick Up Women At The Gym Successfully

Hope that helps,

Thundercat
 
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basically i'd like to try and talk with her again, what choice do I have ? hehehe this time chat it up for more minutes hehe
 
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