Weird Wal-Mart Girl . . .

[ashman1]

Theres this check-out girl @ my local wal-mart .
she a HB6 mabey . kinda quiet .

i saw her sitting doing a sudoku , so i decided to use
it as an opening , and i started a dialog .

for a couple of months id play with her each time i went through her line .
never asked her for her number though , . . .
the other day i HAD to go through her line , and the lady in front of me
pointed out that the other line was open and that i should go over the instead of waiting or did i want this girl , and i said " yeah , i want her ."
with a DJ smile . she ( the check-out girl) was lovin it .

so im gaming her and decided to say" you know one of these days we gonna have to get together, and she says ,yeah . an i walk away again without getting her number on purpose .

so i had to come back in for something , so i decided to walk right up to her and say . . . " im tired of playin wit u , gimme your number . " so she writes it down with a HUGE giggly smile on her face and says , " call me " i say
" aight " and walk away !

so i finally do call her ,and get no answer , so i txt her " call me when ever "
and got no reply . so the other day im shopping @ wal-mart again ( im there alot ) and i see her walking down the aisle towards me , so i pretend i dont see her , and when she sees me , she ducks down the oppisite aisle like a ninja and disappered ! - WTF ?

if she didnt want to talk 2 me why give me the number in the first place ?
did i do something wrong ? help ! - N

 

[Ganondorf]

sounds like you got a shy chick on your hands

i hate me a shy chick

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Forget her, move on. She's only a 6 anyway. She's probably not open to meeting new people.

 

[ashman1]

sounds like you got a shy chick on your hands

i hate me a shy chick

so if she's shy , how do i break her ?

 

[Ganondorf]

so if she's shy , how do i break her ?

lol I'm no expert on girls

but coming from a person who was once a shy guy, you have to handle it differently than normal

shy people need to feel safe and welcome when meeting new people. if you run up in there like a crazy man, she'll run the other way lol.
gently cox her in to meet with you. say things like, "how about we hang out sometime?" instead of something ****y funny. come off as too ****y and they won't want anything to do with you

so in short, on shy chicks. Just be nice, Cool, and lay off alittle on the neg's and ****y funny

 

[DJDamage]

so i finally do call her ,and get no answer , so i txt her " call me when ever "
and got no reply . so the other day im shopping @ wal-mart again ( im there alot ) and i see her walking down the aisle towards me , so i pretend i dont see her , and when she sees me , she ducks down the oppisite aisle like a ninja and disappered ! - WTF ?

if she didnt want to talk 2 me why give me the number in the first place ?
did i do something wrong ? help ! - N

You should have played it cool. Never let them know that you are bothered by them. I am not trying to pick on you but that goes without saying that as soon as there is a bump in the road, alot of guys lose their focus/cool and revert back to their AFC ways.

Your mindest should always be that if things don't go the right away there are plenty of others girls around you can call (even if you currently don't have any).

The first thing, as soon as you call a chick and she doesn't pick up the phone don't sweat it. Don't leave a text message or anything but call in another day and if she still doesn't pick up then leave a brief voice message and leave it at that.

Your second mistake was to pretend you don't see her as if she insulted you. You should have acted the same as you did before. Be cool about it and don't even mention the phone call and just gauge her interest's from your conversation. Now you made things awkward to a point she thinks you might be stalking her (what the hell are you doing in wal-mart every day anyway???)

Also it will help to gauge a girl interest better while she is not working. She is paid to be nice after all.....

 

[LoneSilver]

If she was shy to me it would be safe for her to answer her phone and to return your text and communicate in that way to get comfortable with the OP she already has a feel of him from the Wal-mart encounters so now the question is, how long did you wait to call her?

Also just to add here in my experiences Wal-mart personel don't go out of their way to be nice to customers most of the cashiers I have gone through at Wal-mart and like the OP I shop a ton at Wal-mart simply because you save alot on sh*t but I also shop other places as well and find that the cashiers at places like Ingles here are friendly but Wal-marts are prunes and act like they'd just went through a bitter divorce and your their ex coming through their line..

The ones that are most friendly are usually management and the close to 60 year olds and of course the greeders at the entrance as you come in which are usually retired old farts..

LoneSilver

 

[Bible_Belt]

You spent months gaming a HB6 wal-mart cashier? That girl is worth seconds, not months. You look up, see her for the first time, then go for it right there, within the first three seconds. If you fail, then it's her loss, and you only wasted a few seconds of your life. It's the three-second rule, not the three-month rule. You basically spent months showing her that you were too big of a pvssy to get her number. Even when you did finally work up the courage, you still pvssyfooted around about it. She's not being weird, she just had time to remember all of the moments in the past few months when you were too scared to hit on her.

The good news is that you can learn all of these things from a hb6 so that you do better with the next hb8+. But if a hb6 intimidates you so much that it takes months to work up your nerve, then how are you going to do better when it's a hb9 looking your way and smiling? You have to just go for it, and not obsess over thinking about it like most guys do. A quick failure is ten times better than worrying about it for months.