"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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weird vibes

search1ng

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Hey,
Most of you probably know what I'm talking about. Anyone come across those guys where you see them and straight off the bat you get these weird vibes from them? Maybe I feel threatened by the guy, honestly I'm not sure what it is but as soon as i saw him i knew i didn't like him - i know the feeling is mutual. At the moment i avoid him and stuff but as we're co-workers, it's not like i can avoid him all the time. It's nothing like hate or anything, we talk...when we have to and we're pleasant with each other, but give me an excuse and I'd probably want to aggressively beat him into the ground, thing is, i don't hate him or anything, he hasn't really done anything to offend or piss me off. Maybe i need anger management classes, haha.

Anyway, this guy, to me he comes across as arrogant, kind of selfish, maybe it's cause he looks like a rat, somewhat feels like he's copying me, my style, dress sense etc. Anyway, you guys ever encounter this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cry For Love

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Any tension can be eased by joyful communication. As long as you manage to create a real desire to learn to know him you can at least become acquainted with him.
 

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honestly, i think i get along with people in life really well; decent social circle, girls find me funny, whatever. I tried to like this guy, i did what i usually do - usually works, this guy didn't seem to want to reciprocate. It honestly feels like he's trying to prove his worth or something. Like he's the king of the world, in that arrogant sort of way.
 
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