"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Weird things you find unattractive in women

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If a chick is attractive, it takes a whole lot to turn me off. She has to be going out of her way to make me not want to fvck her. It's funny how that sh1t works. Evolution taking fold.

I don't notice flaws until the next morning. After I've came and sobered up, you name it and it pisses me off. I don't particularly like women beyond coitus.
 

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I don't notice flaws until the next morning.

To quote a country song,

I came in at two with a ten, but at ten I woke up with a two.
I never went to bed with an ugly woman, but I've sure woken up with a few.
 

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Fluctuating interest levels. These girls are fence-sitters, always looking for something "better", the elusive opt ' gold.

You can tell them a mile away. They usually talk a lot about this "handsome" actor or that. She'll mention "good looking" guys, all very innocently (for it comes from her core and she is unaware of what she is doing).

Hate 'em, but fortunately as you learn game you get pretty good at weeding them out before they do any damage.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Atom Smasher said:
Fluctuating interest levels. These girls are fence-sitters, always looking for something "better", the elusive opt ' gold.

You can tell them a mile away. They usually talk a lot about this "handsome" actor or that. She'll mention "good looking" guys, all very innocently (for it comes from her core and she is unaware of what she is doing).

Hate 'em, but fortunately as you learn game you get pretty good at weeding them out before they do any damage.
You are talking about girls that are emotionally unstable right?
 
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