"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Weird things you find attractive in women

Peaks&Valleys

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JoeMarron said:
Interesting answers so far. I'm surprised all of them have been quite tame. I make my girl pee in the shower, it's a massive turn on. Chicks peeing in general is sexy as hell. Not into watersports, golden showers or any of that sh!t though.
This is funny because I used to have a chick who wanted to hold my dingaling whenever I took a pee. I'd walk into the bathroom then she'd follow me in and say: "can I hold it??" I'd say: "uhh, sure!" then she'd sit there staring at it the whole time. It was strange but after a while it became a kind of kinky erotic thing and she'd get worked up so we'd usually bang afterwards.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shoes and sandals with straps that go up their ankles.

Here's an example.

Something about those really do it for me. Probably goes back to the foot fetish thing.
 

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JoeMarron said:
Interesting answers so far. I'm surprised all of them have been quite tame. I make my girl pee in the shower, it's a massive turn on. Chicks peeing in general is sexy as hell. Not into watersports, golden showers or any of that sh!t though.
I'll agree with this.

Other innocent stuff I like:

Accents - Or different English speaking dialect is always cute.

Bare shoulders - Very hot

Bare shoulder blades - Very hot while dancing and she has a strapless dress.

Bare lower back - Hot. Just no tats there preferably.

Panty lines accidentally peeking above waist or a$s - Generally hot. I'm sick of thongs though. Please go out of style soon lol. They've run their course and then some.

Middle of road stuff:

Wet panties - No explanation required

Bizarre stuff:

Chick on her period - I'm not into blood, but something is strangely hot and primal when she tells me she's "on."
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
This is funny because I used to have a chick who wanted to hold my dingaling whenever I took a pee. I'd walk into the bathroom then she'd follow me in and say: "can I hold it??" I'd say: "uhh, sure!" then she'd sit there staring at it the whole time. It was strange but after a while it became a kind of kinky erotic thing and she'd get worked up so we'd usually bang afterwards.
Hah yep I'll admit to following her in sometimes.

I can agree with the glasses. I've never seen a woman who downgraded in looks by wearing them.

Chick on her period - I'm not into blood, but something is strangely hot and primal when she tells me she's "on."
It's not a turn on but I've never understood why some men were disgusted by it. I just think of it as red lube..
 

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Mike32ct said:
Bare shoulders - Very hot

Bare shoulder blades - Very hot while dancing and she has a strapless dress.

Bare lower back - Hot. Just no tats there preferably.
Lol, pretty much bare anything is a turn on.

I also agree about the pigtails. Girls have so many different ways to look hot.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'll play along

Visible bra straps
Throaty voice (Tara Reid, Demi Moore)
French manicures
Not into feet but I like a girl in flip flops
I've always had a thing for jet black hair
I think girl firefighters are hot
Dark brown almost black eyes
Short girls (under 5'3")
There's something about a girl with pale skin and black hair that makes me go a little nuts
I love an accent but British or Australian are my favorite
Pink nail polish on hands or feet
 

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I've got quite a few of these...

A little pot belly and slight love handles.
I agree with the above poster on the slightly larger noses too. Got a thing for women who look a bit like witches.
Dark eye make up. Smudged eye make up. Crying girls.
Fake boobs.
Full eyebrows ("scouse brow").
Fake eyelashes.
Thick muscular thighs.
White tshirts, trainers and socks.
 

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Hair. I LOVE long, gorgeous, shiny, flowing hair. Longer the better.
Summer dresses
Well-done makeup (highlighting natural features only)
Panties--but only thongs, g-strings, and bikini cuts (I admittedly have a slight panty fetish)
Clean, pretty feet.
Humbleness (this shouldn't be weird in a woman but it is nowadays)
Very fair, milky skin.
Thin waist and an apple bum
No bra
Pubic hair. Not unruly, but a nice furry natural bush with good grooming just turns me the fvck on. It's so womanly.
 
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