Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I've always been turned on by the eye shadow too. Lashes, not so much. I especially love it when someone can pull off the "smokey eye" look without looking like an abuse victim...seagull said:I get turned on when a decent looking woman wears eye shadow and eyes lashes. It seems really feminine, as opposed to plain looking when they don't wear this.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I agree with this one. Glasses are sexy on women but only if they're real. The fake ones do nothing for me.Man on Fire said:Eye glasses. But only if they actually need corrective eye glasses. I know females that wear fake glasses as an "accessory" to their outfit. Then it becomes a turnoff...dumb attention wh0re.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.