weird things happen today

[tom121]

Today I was trying to avoid any eye contacting with all the hot ladies, because I was tired of getting one look and looked away by them... It hurts me everytime I see that happens...

so on the bus:
2 '8' chicks were looking at me for few moments, I didn't look at them because they look like they are 4 years younger than me...

later on, a '9' asian chick was looking at me from a distance. I was looking out the window, I caught her looking at me, so I looked at her, she looks away quickly... couple seconds after I looked away, she looks at me again...

after schools out, I saw so many hot chicks from other classes, I didn't bother say hi to them because I was trying to get into one class to use the computer to get my homework done...

then again on the bus, this one extremely hot asian chick was looking at me of all time, I didn't bother looking at her once...


why don't this happen when I am trying to find someone to approach? this ALWAYS happen when I am not in the mood to pick up chicks

EVERYTIME (not only this time) there is always some girls when I caught them "looking" at me they all seems to look away, maybe they are shy, maybe they are looking at something on me, or anything I don't know about...

just yesterday I caught so many girls with boyfriends were looking at me as they walk by, some of them seem to "digging" me


oh and ofcourse I don't know how to read mind (I wish I know how) so I have no idea what they were looking at unless I say "are you checking me out?"

 

[kiz]

always be ready to pick up chicks. next time, look back, make eye contact and smile big. then go over and start a conversation.

 

[Wyldfire]

My guess would be that by not looking at them they're wondering why you aren't gawking at them like all the other guys do. If a girl is used to be looked at all the time, you can get their interest easier by not being like everyone else.

 

[jakeyboy]

next time you make eye contact with a chick, if she looks away quickly then looks at you again when you appear not to be paying attention, look her straight back and wink at her. that's worked for me.

 

[tom121]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
My guess would be that by not looking at them they're wondering why you aren't gawking at them like all the other guys do. If a girl is used to be looked at all the time, you can get their interest easier by not being like everyone else.

so what can I do to move to the next level? winking or approaching will take me to point one (other guys approaching/gawking)

 

[tom121]

by the way I think approaching just shows my desperation, but if I don't approach and only do with a smile and "come-to-me" fingers stuff to show her I am the boss and etc, would that work?

 

[RedKnight04]

For one stop trying so hard man, just chill - Stop trying to lay every chick you see. Work on your social skills. Practice on ugly chicks even.

When I was starting out I went into a clothing store and tryed to find a really hot chick and ask her for opinion's on clothes. If you develop some rapport ask her if she can wait to see how it would look on you. Then when you are walking to the dressing room tell her "I'm going to try these on, but please don't come into the room and no peaking"

So the good part is, you are totally not going for a number so their is no reason to be nervous. Plus, girls love giving advice, and they love to shop!! PLUS, you'll start getting comfortable enough around both each other that when you do ask for her digits its not an awkward thing.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by tom121
by the way I think approaching just shows my desperation, but if I don't approach and only do with a smile and "come-to-me" fingers stuff to show her I am the boss and etc, would that work?

Learn the fine art of the raised eyebrow smirk...and use it often.