"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Weird thing happened to me today. Never happened before.

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I'll just lay it out :

Lunch time. I go into nearby Subway. Place is empty. 25ish year old latina chick, about 7.5, does my sandwich. As my sandwich is almost done, she starts calling me "papi" which is spanish for daddy. Some customers walk in. As I am paying and getting ready to leave, she starts saying "papi" at the end of every sentence. Right in front of the other customers...??? I walk towards the exit, and she literally yells across the place, "bye papi" right in front of everyone.

Ok. So part of me thinks this bi*** was pulling a joke on me or something. I did not flirt with her or anything. Out of the blue.

Anyone shed some light on this, to any of you that this has happened before? Was she asking for my dic* or what was going on?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Single4Life said:
That wasn't helpful.
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If you're looking for something useful here this:

Go back to that place and have a talk with that girl, what do you expect to gain here more than what you would get going there again and maybe flirt back.
 
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Ok, what I mean is that she probably talks like that.

Some people say "sugar" or "baby" or "honey" to any people they meet. She says papi. It might have been a flirty thing, or just a thing she says to most guys.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alle_Gory

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Why don't you figure this one out for yourself? Maybe she's crazy, maybe she was drunk or on drugs and thought you looked like her "papi"... etc.

How are we supposed to know? Figure it out. It's not brain surgery.
 
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Every time I'm served by a female at a Latin restaurant, they call me "papi".

And if it were some blonde bartender at your local sportsbar, she'd call you "hun".

You gotta get out more.
 
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