"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Weird Statement by Chick . . . Any Good Responses?

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Every so often I'll meet a chick who says something along the lines of "I'm really into (or fascinated by) serial killers." I confess, I kind of am too. When it's late and nothing is getting blown up on the History Channel, what better than Investigative Reports or Cold Case Files. And, let's face it, these psychos are kind of interesting.

But what response can you possibly say to this. "Oh yeah, me too!" I mean, of course, what response that will help you get laid.

I guess, frankly, she's giving you important information about her interests: something about these out-of-control psychos intrigues her. Maybe me too is the best response. And just leave it vague.

Thougths?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ryannath

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I would personally run because I am not that kind a person to be hanging around girls that are intrigued by serial killers. She must be a serious freak.
 

WaterTiger

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"Really? So was my last girlfriend, so I ate her liver with some fava beans and a nice chiante!"
 

LA_Chico

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Just say "ironially, I'm into serial rapists" then wink at her and lick your lips bro.
 

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Imitate the voice of Hannibal Lecter, "Hello Clarice."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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