"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok so last week I met this 9.5....she was so into me that she asked me for my # before i could even ask her for it. school jus ended yesterday and im going on vacation for like 3 weeks next week. i dont want her to lose interest while im gone so how do i keep her interested? when i get back i wanna pick up where i left off. thanks.

edit: ive been talking to her so its not like ive only talked to her once
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Theres a better chance of her losing interest over you trying squeeze her in before your vacation than her losing interest over a little off time. Hang out with her maybe once in the next week, preferably laying in a kiss or something, then go have fun on vacation. 9 out of 10 times she'll be waiting there when you get back. I can't tell you how many times I've been suprised when girls I haven't talked to in ages get up the guts to call me. You're a challenge, and they like it.
 
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I agree. You have to make her want you while your away. A make out session would be the best way. Then have fun while your away, don't think about her and when you get back she'll jump on you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Too busy my ass. All it takes is a 10 minute walk at night, some choice words, and a nice kiss. Start things up for christ sake.
 
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Busy is an excuse. I'm sure you have a little bit of free time during one of your days.


A simple phone call saying that you're leaving for a few weeks and that you think that hanging out would be a good idea.


What on earth could keep you so busy that you can't hang out with a supposed 9.5?
 
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1) have confidence that you are the best guy she will ever meet, let alone meet in the next 3 weeks
2) give off that vibe when you are with her
3) hook up with girls on vacation :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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