This is long complicated story but I'll try to summarize as best I can with it still making sense.
Basically I used to ba a huge AFC. I was THE nice guy. I'm happy to say that this has all changed.
Unfortunately I met this girl "Becca" when I was full blown AFC. Becca was definitely interested in me and I really liked her. Looking back I have figured the exact moment my AFCness blew it for me. One night I had her but I didn't make a move, should have kissed her but didn't. It was weak! went downhill from there.
I got really pissed and ended everything when we were supposed to meet up in Cali when I was on vacation there,where she is from, but she was a no show. had lame excuse. It was her idea to meet up to. so I pretty much hated this chick.
For a solid year we despised eachother. I went out of my way to push buttons when I was around her and she did the same. It got pretty ugly. My friend cussed her out once it was hilarious!
I kept running into the damn girl and there was always drama and my friend told me to just make up up so that there isn't so much hostility. So one night I did. She was so happy saying she hated fighting with me. After I told her that I wanted to bury the hatchette, I still did not want anything to do with her. I was moving on.
Then she starts talking to me again. IMs, phone calls...etc I never initate anything. I tell myself shes a cool girl but I've nexted her so no going back. I'm not rude or anything I'm friendly shes a nice girl. But I never invite her out or anything.
I've come a long way since my AFC days and I think she is starting to like me. I told myslef nope, not doing anything. She's invited me to go see her dance performance, ask me out to eat ice cream, ask me to go out to parties. I agree go out use DJ skills for practice. Figure shes good social proof too since she's hot. I even use DJ skills on her friends. 3 of them like me. Went out on date with one but I later cooled off on her and moved on. Recently that girl told becca, "watch out he thinks he is a player". haha long way from AFC days.
Becca really started giving me vibes last few of weeks of school (I'm in college) We are friends by then. All this happens shortly after she finds out that I went out on date with her roomate(who I had no idea even knew her at time, see "player quote") and her other friend/aquantice hooked up with me. She literally grabbed me and kissed me while we were dancing.
Over a month Becca invites me to go see movie, grocery shopping, running, laundry. She broke her arm so she ask if i can help her move,she takes me out to dinner afterwards. she spends $90 on just the two of us bottle of wine and everything(dinner, wine all her idea). Dinner lasted over 2 hrs, we were last ppl to leave restaurant.
She also started saying some interesting things:saying how good looking I was. asking me about g/fs. saying I have nice body.
So school is over now. Shes in cali I'm in TX. I figure well that sure was interesting. Made that chick pull a 180. Then she starts calling me. First time it was for advice for her lil brother, then next time it was b/c she was bored. Just the other night we were on phone for over an hour. her cell actually died mid convo and she called her other friend to get my number since it was in her cell phone book so that she could call me on her home phone.
Classic line in convo: "I can't stay mad at good looking ppl"
- we were talking about the year we hated eachother and how we made up.
Keep in mind all of this has happened w/o me initating any contact since the night I made up with her, about 4 months ago.
So yeah I think Becca likes me now but I've yet to pursue anything. Probably say I've been a tease if anything. Question is should I pursure anything? I've been reluctant b/c I tried once, albeit when I as an AFC, but I don't wanna go back you know.
At the same time if she were to walk into my room butt naked I would **** the **** out of her since she is hot as ****. What do you guys think I should do. Not pursue anything like I have been doing or make a move once we're back in school.
So what do you think? If you read all that thanks I'd really apreciate hearing what you think.
Basically I used to ba a huge AFC. I was THE nice guy. I'm happy to say that this has all changed.
Unfortunately I met this girl "Becca" when I was full blown AFC. Becca was definitely interested in me and I really liked her. Looking back I have figured the exact moment my AFCness blew it for me. One night I had her but I didn't make a move, should have kissed her but didn't. It was weak! went downhill from there.
I got really pissed and ended everything when we were supposed to meet up in Cali when I was on vacation there,where she is from, but she was a no show. had lame excuse. It was her idea to meet up to. so I pretty much hated this chick.
For a solid year we despised eachother. I went out of my way to push buttons when I was around her and she did the same. It got pretty ugly. My friend cussed her out once it was hilarious!
I kept running into the damn girl and there was always drama and my friend told me to just make up up so that there isn't so much hostility. So one night I did. She was so happy saying she hated fighting with me. After I told her that I wanted to bury the hatchette, I still did not want anything to do with her. I was moving on.
Then she starts talking to me again. IMs, phone calls...etc I never initate anything. I tell myself shes a cool girl but I've nexted her so no going back. I'm not rude or anything I'm friendly shes a nice girl. But I never invite her out or anything.
I've come a long way since my AFC days and I think she is starting to like me. I told myslef nope, not doing anything. She's invited me to go see her dance performance, ask me out to eat ice cream, ask me to go out to parties. I agree go out use DJ skills for practice. Figure shes good social proof too since she's hot. I even use DJ skills on her friends. 3 of them like me. Went out on date with one but I later cooled off on her and moved on. Recently that girl told becca, "watch out he thinks he is a player". haha long way from AFC days.
Becca really started giving me vibes last few of weeks of school (I'm in college) We are friends by then. All this happens shortly after she finds out that I went out on date with her roomate(who I had no idea even knew her at time, see "player quote") and her other friend/aquantice hooked up with me. She literally grabbed me and kissed me while we were dancing.
Over a month Becca invites me to go see movie, grocery shopping, running, laundry. She broke her arm so she ask if i can help her move,she takes me out to dinner afterwards. she spends $90 on just the two of us bottle of wine and everything(dinner, wine all her idea). Dinner lasted over 2 hrs, we were last ppl to leave restaurant.
She also started saying some interesting things:saying how good looking I was. asking me about g/fs. saying I have nice body.
So school is over now. Shes in cali I'm in TX. I figure well that sure was interesting. Made that chick pull a 180. Then she starts calling me. First time it was for advice for her lil brother, then next time it was b/c she was bored. Just the other night we were on phone for over an hour. her cell actually died mid convo and she called her other friend to get my number since it was in her cell phone book so that she could call me on her home phone.
Classic line in convo: "I can't stay mad at good looking ppl"
- we were talking about the year we hated eachother and how we made up.
Keep in mind all of this has happened w/o me initating any contact since the night I made up with her, about 4 months ago.
So yeah I think Becca likes me now but I've yet to pursue anything. Probably say I've been a tease if anything. Question is should I pursure anything? I've been reluctant b/c I tried once, albeit when I as an AFC, but I don't wanna go back you know.
At the same time if she were to walk into my room butt naked I would **** the **** out of her since she is hot as ****. What do you guys think I should do. Not pursue anything like I have been doing or make a move once we're back in school.
So what do you think? If you read all that thanks I'd really apreciate hearing what you think.
