"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok so..i met this girl in math class durin my sophormore year in hs..we'll call her S..when i met S i was already in a relationship so we remained friends and i didn't think anything of it..this was back in 2003..fast forward to 2005..her bestfriend who'll we'll call E transfers to our skool..E was cute..E thought i was cute..we was feelin eachother..but we werent attracted to eachother on a mental level only physically..we had **** in common and rarely got along..nothing ever happened there..fast forward to 2007..i started to develop feelings for S out of nowhere..i think it was because she was bout to start a relationship with some guy(great guy btw) so i messed up and told her i had feelings for her and that i think we should pursue it..she shot me down and told me she didn't see me that way yada yada..we remain cool till bout november..once november hit i said **** it..no reason to be cool wit her..so i cut off contact..fast forward to May 12th..she hits me up saying "im jus curious 2 kno if ur ever gona talk 2 me again? if ur not its fine u dnt hav 2 answer back jus wondering " i got **** and responded back with "you miss me huh" she responds back and says yea..we been cool for 6 yrs and all of a sudden you disappear..i told her "**** happens" she hits me back saying "ok. if u dnt wanna talk 2 me its fine i was jus curious. wish u the best bye." after that i let it go..figured fuk it..no love loss..fast forward to tonight..E hits me up out of nowhere..askin me what im up too..now my question is..do i have a chance wit this girl?(her and S do not talk to eachother no more due to S boyfriend) if so..what steps should i take..
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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I think you need to stop worrying about these two girls and meet some more women :)

You have a chance with E, but be careful....S could have told her all kinds of things about you.

And dude, don't mess up again the way you did with S. Looks like you had a good friendship going...
 
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at least you don't have ****ing jealous women spreading all this **** about you and ****ed up retard males ****blocking you everywhere.
 
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ARrocket said:
I think you need to stop worrying about these two girls and meet some more women :)

You have a chance with E, but be careful....S could have told her all kinds of things about you.

And dude, don't mess up again the way you did with S. Looks like you had a good friendship going...
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i don't have a issue with getting more women..but E is a chick whom i always wanted to sleep with..Im not sure what S may have told her..but im sure she is hitting me up for a reason
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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the Dj rule always asserts leave past skeletons in closet no matter what as they already had their chance..but to console you now you can ask her out for a drink to gauge her interest then from there play it cool let her come onto you while you subtley release few games here and there but later see if u can score her okay
 
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