"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Weird signals from chick need some help

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I went out to dinner tonight at a restaurant where I know everyone the meal was fine and this girl I like like hb9 crismatic chick. Anyways she brought me our food out and was all up in my personal space pressing her upper thigh on my shoulder as she did and as she brought back new drinks. Then later my boys b-day was today and we we're having a blast. She kinda ignored me. then when I happened to walkin to one the the rooms and she was there she'll would leave then come back a few minutes later. But not hardly paying attention to me and hugging most of my friends and telling them she loves them. While totally ignoring me... Could just be a pricktease dunno....or just intimated by my presence there.

A third person perspective would be much apperiated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Adrian

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Ok dude... this chick CLEARLY loves to toy around with you. And you need to stop fooling yourself into thinking she's intimidated by your presence. All she wants over you is CONTROL and POWER. When she ignores you, hugs your friends and says that she loves them it's nothing more than sh!t tests. To see how much power and control she does have over you. I bet you started to want to fvck her even more after she put her upper thigh on your shoulder. It's all part of the act. Give you a sneak peak of something you'll never get. I highly doubt there is any interest on her behalf. Forget about her and go get laid by other girls worth your time.
 
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You're confusing yourself dude and overanalyzing things too much. I suggest you stop that. Go read the bible.
 
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Adrian said:
You're confusing yourself dude and overanalyzing things too much. I suggest you stop that. Go read the bible.
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i second that and suggest you look up the term aw
 
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PectoralisMajor

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total over-analyzing

you never even spoke to the girl. whats with that? zero progress made, she wont even remember you.

I tell you, I have folk remember me wherever I go, why? its not because im brad pitt, nor the most social guy in the world. Its because I will chat to anyone regardless, about anything and have a LAUGH with them :cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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