"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Weird recurring (yet recent) dream.

Eccentric

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About me an my ex from last summer, yikes!

Truth be told, I dumped her because she lied about being pregnant. This stemmed from me ignoring her for about a week, after countless (and annoying) accusations that I didn't like her; despite the fact that we slept together every night.

Anyways... We are apart for some reason. Even though we know each other, when we meet (to get back together I suppose), it's like it's for the first time. After we meet, she always heads out and I'm supposed to meet her back at her place when she gets home. Which is always a few hours away. Right before I arrive at her place, I always wake up.

I mean I've got no attachment to her, it's just weird that this is right around the time last year that we broke up.

Anyone else experience something similar?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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http://www.dreamdoctor.com/dictionary/exlover.shtml

Ex-lovers often appear if a relationship ended abruptly, without emotional closure. Do you still wonder if it could have worked out differently? Do you miss qualities that your ex-lover possessed?

Dreams of being romantically involved with an ex frequently represent fears of commitment with a current lover, rather than genuine attraction to the old lover. Are you ready to leave the past behind? An ex-lover who continues to pursue a former partner in real life may show up negatively in dreams, in a haunting or stalking character.
 

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Wow that's actually pretty cool.

Lets see how screwed up I am! :rockon:
 
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