"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Weird recurring (yet recent) dream.

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About me an my ex from last summer, yikes!

Truth be told, I dumped her because she lied about being pregnant. This stemmed from me ignoring her for about a week, after countless (and annoying) accusations that I didn't like her; despite the fact that we slept together every night.

Anyways... We are apart for some reason. Even though we know each other, when we meet (to get back together I suppose), it's like it's for the first time. After we meet, she always heads out and I'm supposed to meet her back at her place when she gets home. Which is always a few hours away. Right before I arrive at her place, I always wake up.

I mean I've got no attachment to her, it's just weird that this is right around the time last year that we broke up.

Anyone else experience something similar?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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http://www.dreamdoctor.com/dictionary/exlover.shtml

Ex-lovers often appear if a relationship ended abruptly, without emotional closure. Do you still wonder if it could have worked out differently? Do you miss qualities that your ex-lover possessed?

Dreams of being romantically involved with an ex frequently represent fears of commitment with a current lover, rather than genuine attraction to the old lover. Are you ready to leave the past behind? An ex-lover who continues to pursue a former partner in real life may show up negatively in dreams, in a haunting or stalking character.
 
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Wow that's actually pretty cool.

Lets see how screwed up I am! :rockon:
 
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