"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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weird question?!?!

Charppy

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Ok I have a question and I really hope that this doesn't come across as a bad question or a trollish question. I'll just ask because I'm not really sure if I can put the words together to explain what i'm trying to learn.
Ok here goes...
Is m@sterbation something that should be avoided??

The reason I ask is because I wonder if doing that plus looking at porn may cause a significant decrease in confidence. Especially someone such as myself who is addicted to porn and mbing..i'm beginning to think that it does in fact cause problems with potentials and with the level of my confidence. To be honest I think it is something that i've used to cover up my desires to have that "HB8 or 9" but thinking that I'm not the man that will ever get an HP8,9 or 10. I've used it when i am lonely and when i'm feeling low about myself.
I"m not looking for admission by anyone else..i'm just looking for a straight forward answer concerning the topic of porn and mbing.
Thank you
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Cut down on the masterbating and watching porn. Start doing things to keep you busy and start going after girls.
 

Lord Shinra

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Yeah. M@sturbation kills your drive, so when you do pick up a HB you won't be as effective as you would normally.

Cut back on your pr0n watching and MBing, and do something like working out or some hobby that interests you.
 
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