"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jeffrey12

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Thanks gravity. I'm going to read that post when I get some time because I'm busy at work. Thanks.

A bit of advice on something that just happened. This chick blocked me on instagram just now. We've been messaging today and we're meeting up tomorrow. So I asked why I was blocked on instagram and her reply was because she gets jealous of girls when they like or message on my pictures.

How should I react to this? One side of me things she's doing it to be secretive. I really don't know lol. How would you guys deal with this?

Help would be greatly appreciated
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jeffrey12 said:
Hi guys.

I've got the weirdest issue with my game. When it comes to in and out stealth bomber mode with women (getting them to sleep with me ASAP) I'm brilliant at it. I get them in the right mood, play psychologically with their mind, and 99% get them in bed and end up doing the deed. That's the easy bit for me. My problem is trying to control my own feelings if I end up liking a chick. Then it all goes semi pear shaped. I start over thinking things, think they are cheating or dating someone else, if I don't get a reply or my call doesn't get answered I think they've lost interest etc. I'm guessing you guys get the drift.

Any tips or advice on me dealing with this pathetic side of my game would be greatly appreciated haha.
lol you are right they are cheating and shagin other dude even your mates.. but it snot your job too change her human nature.. its only your job to also get sex form her.. biding in a relationship actually putts you at a disadvantage in most case since womb treat there BFs worse and worse ever time..
 

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So met up a couple of days ago. Went theatre, she was all cuddly cuddly. She then stayed at my place. Had sex etc. She was getting jealous on the night out when another girl spoke to me, she was asking questions at my place like 'how many chicks do you being back to this house', saying that she likes me but then randomly saying that I mean nothing to her. So some conflicting messages there ...

I made a decision to play the cold treatment to try and swerve and get more power and control on my side.. This chick is stubborn lol and knows the game haha

So the last text conversation was a couple of days ago:

Chick: that's for last night x
Me: x (sent it 2 hours later)
Chick: how's work (sent 2 hours later)
Me: fine thanks, just got in now. You cool? (Sent 3 hours later)
Chick: yeah good x (sent 5 minutes later)

We haven't spoken since. So as things stand she made the last communication. But I believe because I've taken the cold stance I can't just randomly message her now and go all soft!! She's definitely on dating sites and I'm still getting involved with other chicks regularly!!
 
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