"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Weird" methods for the soul?

Roly

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You know, I was thinking about this while I was watching Batman Begin the other night and it made me think of all the
" weird" stuff Bruce Wayne had to go through to conquer his fears and become Batman like travel the world, go to the freakin Himalayas just to become a more enlightened person and seek his purpose in life. I dunno, it made me think of the " weird" things people do to get confidence and sense of peace about themselves. Sort of like Phil Jackson bringing his zen philosophy and making his players do Yoga or something in that manner.

Here are a couple of examples, I thought of:

( 1.) Go to Tibet and become a Shaolin Monk.

-I pick up this new book that I'm reading and there's this dude who was from NY and he went to Tibet to become a Shaolin Monk to make peace with his horrible past. Not a bad book by the way.

(2.) Go to the wilderness and spend five months there by yourself.

- Hey, this isn't such a bad idea, you can come out of this a better man because this will build self reliance upon yourself emotionally and physically.

(3.) Take up meditation, yoga, tai- chi and try learning a martial arts.

Meditation is great, it will clear your mind and learning martial arts builds emotional and physical discipline to an individual.

(4.) Go Sky diving and moutain climbing.

I never tried this, but it's probably a great way to build up some testosterones.

(5.) Wake up early in the morning and go jogging by yourself.

Done this a couple of times, it's an enlightening way to start your day. I live in a small town so I'm jogging all by myself just enjoying the solitude before the sun rises.


Well, that's about it. Does anybody else have any " weird" methods that they use ? Feel free to share with us.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You live in South Padre Island. The only thing I'd need to cleanse my soul there would be a case of beer and a video camera.

By the way, AE.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
You live in South Padre Island. The only thing I'd need to cleanse my soul there would be a case of beer and a video camera.

By the way, AE.
haha yea....

Go spend 5 months in the wilderness by yourself?

why dont you try more practical ways to gain confidence?
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
haha yea....

Go spend 5 months in the wilderness by yourself?

why dont you try more practical ways to gain confidence?
sticking with ways that you think is practical is a way of setting up barriers for the broad potential of your own mind.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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im just saying #1 and 2 are very impractical because becoming a shaolin monk i believe takes a loooong time and not anybody can do it, and how many people do you know that knows how to survive in the wilderness for more than a couple of weeks?
 

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I've started taking Tai Chi and Kung Fu a few months ago and I love it. It helps me find balance because most of the time I am adapting to chaos. Meditating is a great way to get in touch with your higher self.
 

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Originally posted by Roly
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Well, that's about it. Does anybody else have any " weird" methods that they use ? Feel free to share with us.
Scuba diving. Whenever I get underwater, it's a different world. You can't zone out though, since you have to pay attention to things like how much time you spend down and how fast you're consuming air. But there is a Zen quality to it and I always feel at peace while I'm diving. None of my problems or issues bother me when I'm underwater.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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