"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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weird girl: shut up

Humble Young Man

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In my English class, this girl asked to look at my assignment, she was "ugly" and I didn't bother to do something other than to give her my assignment. We've never talked to each other before and something strange happend:

In the middle of the class, I was talking about how I didn't like something (school related) and that girls suddenly said in front of my face: "shut up stupid" something like that (serious manner). And I was shocked, I have never been accused like this and she is a total stranger to me. I mean, I was cool with most people and nobody said such disrepectful words to me.

So weird..... After she said that, I just simply ignored her. I mean why would she say such things?

Shes soo ugly... and I am just shocked when someone I don't know very well say such things to me
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tekniq

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Ugly girls usually have the most false confidence.
 

chinwaggler

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maybe she was kidding.. if she wasn't you should have put her down.. she was the one looking at your assignment...
 

BlakeW5

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Was this a one-on-one situation or did she do it when you were talking to the whole class? Either way, never put up with that kind of disrespect. Guy or girl, immediately shut that person down and publicly make them look like a fool. Call them out on it. The quickest way to make someone uncomfortable is to get loud and make other people notice that persons mistake
 

SomethingClever

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She likes you. There's nothing you can do. If you ignore her, she'll like you more, if you pay attention to her, she'll like you more. If you insult her in front of everyone, she'll like you more. The best you can do is to not mind her.

And if she really is ugly, why would you care about she does to you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJVladdy

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You are asking a question ABOUT YOURSELF from other people that have never met you.

This is like a math professor asking a 1st grader for math help. Other people on this site dont know anything about you! What is your vibe, your aura. What was specific context of circumstances, etc..

My opinion is that a girl would not say this in a serious tone for no reason. Looking at your writing tone as well as your usename: you give off some creepy vibes. If that's the case - stop being creepy.
 

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I've actually found that ugly (and fat) girls tend to have the lowest self-esteem, but a small minority are the *****est women you'll ever run across (I dated one junior year). She probably just hates everything right now...you count as everything, so you were just in her way. Don't take it personally.
 

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The problem is: if I confront her in front of the whole class, I won't look good either. Yea, she's sorta wierd; I heard that the girl hates dog so much that she would rather die than to get close to a dog. If I am sending out this creepy vibe like what DJdaddy is saying, why is she the only one to disrespect me?

At the moment, I don't know what to do if she say such things again.
 
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