"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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weird/funny stories.....

Heretolearn

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Ok you guys probably have the good stuff but I shall contribute a weird story that I remembered when reading another thread



I was in a LTR and my GF went overseas for 3 months. I stayed in contact via phone (SIDENOTE: if you are young I recommend breaking up for times like these).

Anyway she came back all weird (even thuogh she was completely full on writing letters and such before that). Then she got extra close and unleashed the major commitment talk. She told me this guy over there was ABSOLUTELY devoted to her but she told him she had a BF.

Anyway, about the same time I had a website and would get a lot of different persons emailing in. I had one girl at the time asking me all these questions and flirting a lot.

I never flirted back but answered the questions

6 months later it turns out that I find out the 'girl' was the guy who was obsessed with my GF overseas! He was impersonating a girl trying to get information or something.

WEIRD!!!!!!!!!!!!!

another story of my friends was he was having fun at a nightclub and a guy walked up and started chatting. All was well for 15 minutes then the guy asked my friend about his first ever GF (massive LTR at the time that he broke off as he left the town). My friend said she was a nice girl. Awkward silence then the other guy says 'cause I am with her now' Awkward silence. My friend says 'good for you' and walks off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyway, about the same time I had a website and would get a lot of different persons emailing in. I had one girl at the time asking me all these questions and flirting a lot.

I never flirted back but answered the questions

6 months later it turns out that I find out the 'girl' was the guy who was obsessed with my GF overseas! He was impersonating a girl trying to get information or something.
I had something fvcked up like that happen to me a few days after my ex left. Some guy buzzed up to my apartment. I answer and he's like "Hey man, let me up!" I asked who it was. "It's Steve! This is Desdinova right?" He then began to accurately describe what I looked like. I didn't know who the fvck this guy was and it sounded kinda fishy. I just said "Sorry man, I don't know you" and hung up.

I have a feeling it was a guy who wanted to date my ex.

Another weird thing that happened a couple weeks later: My caretaker told me that my brother had visited her, looking for an apartment. I told her that my brother lives 800 miles away from here, is married, and has two kids. She said that the guy claimed to know me, and claimed to be my brother. Those two experiences combined was a bit scary.
 
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