"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Weird / Funny Amog at the gym

yuppaz

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So today was pretty funny. I was at the gym and this girl overhears me talking about the mortgage crisis etc. I know a sh*tload about it and was just going on and go back to do a calf set and she is on the squat machine next to me and asks me about the lender. I actually opened her because she was coughing and I mentioned that it stinks to work out when you are sick (I just did it the last couple weeks and it blew). Then she chats me up about the mortgage crisis, tells me she is a realtor and mortgage lender. So we are talking about it a bit and the guy I was talking to before comes over and AMOG (maybe reverse amog would be a better term)'s me. He is saying stuff like, what is your name, and what is her name and introduces us...(wtf?????) after we are already talking for a few minutes. I prob should have asked her and told her before and he probably noticed that and came up and tried to match make>>>???? then, instead of being a ****, I was cool about it and asked him his name, he tells me his name is like a street in California where there is a nudist colony. I remember a story from here or rsd or something and spit off that I was a closet nudist when I was a kid, the girl loves it and is cracking up and the guy laughs and leaves. then we talk some more and he comes over and tells us he is cupid and that we should go out to dinner to talk. I just kind of smile and ask him if we were disturbing him or something, and he just says that he is cupid and is trying to make us fall in love....WTF>>>>>????? I was cool and laughed (pissed really though for him interrupting and f*cking with my game) and told her that he seemed like a cool guy, then moved on.


Does this sound like the weirdest AMOG you have ever heard of or was this guy really just such a chump / weirdo that he actually thought he was helping......?????

Had to relate the story....chick was hot btw, like a 9 - French Canadian girl.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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daygameguy

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That's weird actually. I would put him under the AMOG category though. But he seems like one of unwanted AFC guys who try to gain value and acknowledgment from people around them. I would even say he might have a crush on you. lmao

So what happened with the girl?
 

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lmao...swear to god, it was this older Asian guy with druggie red eyes. He was singing the cupid song and told us he was trying to help us fall in love or something. he was talking up this other cute chick and I butted in a little bit, not much though...maybe that was his payback....seemed genuine though like he really believed he was a do-gooder......lmao f*cking funny as hell now that the night is over.
 

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ohhh... the girl was pretty into me. I kinda screwed up with her though ...still kinda rafc and basically was too honest about how negative the whole housing thing was, at the end of the night she was thinking that she might need to change her job...lmao. She did seem to still want me though, but she was so into herself that it kind of annoyed me and I left it off saying hi to her friends and that I would see her around. She looked like she really wanted me to set something up but either it was me being RAFC or she was a gold digger, or something...i dunno too obsessed with money and stuff and it kinda turned me off. She'll probably be there tomorrow because I intrigued her (not being a dork, she looked very interested, I'm just not sure if it was me for my personality or if it was because I told her I made out pretty well on the housing bubble bursting (trading options).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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