"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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old_skoolr

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So ive been seeing this girl for a bout a month, nothing serious, just casual dates. Shes a great chick, in looks & personality easy HB9, and perhaps maybe even a keeper.

Though tonight she did something interesting. Msged me the lyrics "just a lil bit" with a wink face after it all. I played along with the flirting, thinking everything going good. Then I see on fb that she posted a weird status bout being jealous about a boy thats not even hers anymore. I know his her ex and they share a son together, they broke up 2 months before i met her. I didnt call her out on it, rather let her have the last msg and not reply back. I figured that she was feeling insecure and texted me to make her feel better bout herself.

But would appreciate any DJ's on the situation. I'm usually pretty good with situations, but this really left me with a black face.

Cheers fellas
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When i talk to chicks on FB i down right ignore whatever status, friends or pictures they have that could potentially confuse me. I'm pretty experienced text based and when i'm busy with a girl i can pretty much tell if she's doing it for me or not. But at the end of the day it doesn't matter at all, being unreactive to whatever she does works in real life but it can be tricky. Being unreactive on FB is easy as hell! Even if you care with all your might! She won't know if you don't let her know. She can't read your body language so there is no way for you to fail.

But did i read this part correctly? "I know his her ex and they share a son together" as in. She has a ****ing son?
 

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Cheers for the feedback, yeh i sort of knew it. I havent tried to get physical yet, just enjoyed being with her and company (plus i have other girls im banging on the side), but deff should go for it soon, just to see how she reacts.

Yeh she does have a son, a 2 year old, she was quick to tell me on our first date, she said "After what i tell you, you'd probably end this date straight away" But i handled it cool, and nonchelantly, doesnt really bother me she has a son, doesnt change what kind of a person she is.
 

Dedication

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old_skoolr said:
Yeh she does have a son, a 2 year old, she was quick to tell me on our first date, she said "After what i tell you, you'd probably end this date straight away" But i handled it cool, and nonchelantly, doesnt really bother me she has a son, doesnt change what kind of a person she is.
I think you should care, not emotionally but on a logical level. It does not make any sense to get it on with used goods. It will only put you in a disadvantageous position, taking care of someone else's son. Jesus christ man. What are you looking to get out of this girl? It seems to me you're wanting a LTR.

**** no! Is the first thought that pops up in my mind. But that won't do anything for you. I advice you to search around for Rollo Tomassi, this guy knows whats up when it comes to chicks n kids.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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